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Taylor Swift

A.K.A----> LuLu
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Well it finally happened me and my girlfriend just broke up.....we have been dating for 3 years now and out of no where she says.." Josh ( thats my name) I think we need time apart" and after that i was heart broken.... And now she is dating another guy......GRRRRRRRRRRRRR....I need advise on how to win her back....I know she is only dating this guy to piss me off...and its working
 
Trust me, you dont want her back. I was dumped after 3 years and 4 months and within a month my ex was dating some tart! These people are not worth your time and energy, trust me. The fact that she is already dating is proof you dont want her back. I was told that after being in a realtionship that long that some partners break it off cause they want to dip their foot in the pond, they want to experince other people before they decide what they really want. She may ask to come back later on, but would you want her back after this?

6 months on and Im in a relationship now and Im happier. It takes time to get over this and to heal, but you must do so in order to move forward. She is in your past now and should remain there. Youre 16 and have your whole life ahead of you. There was talk of marriage in my past relationship, so imagine that being blown back in your face and having to move out of the home you both had for 2 years.
 
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Trust me, you dont want her back. I was dumped after 3 years and 4 months and within a month my ex was dating some tart! These people are not worth your time and energy, trust me. The fact that she is already dating is proof you dont want her back. I was told that after being in a realtionship that long that some partners break it off cause they want to dip their foot in the pond, they want to experince other people before they decide what they really want. She may ask to come back later on, but would you want her back after this?

6 months on and Im in a relationship now and Im happier. It takes time to get over this and to heal, but you must do so in order to move forward. She is in your past now and should remain there. Youre 16 and have your whole life ahead of you. There was talk of marriage in my past relationship, so imagine that being blown back in your face and having to move out of the home you both had for 2 years.
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I'd do this......if there's anything she's insecure about, be it boobie size or what not, find another girl who pwns her in that department. The final drab of icing on the cake would be to ''Accidentally'' meet her, and her new boy-toy someplace, but act like you don't notice them! All you gotta do next, is spark a conversation about what ever it is that this new girl you're dating/paying has, and that's all you need. Of course, if she had a good reason for breaking it off, I wouldn't recommend this.
 
Dont go after someone who is better then her in a certain department as thats just using your new partner and can hurt them if they knew the truth. Dont go rushing to find someone, you need time to heal or the pain will surface in the new relationship and ruin it for you.

If you do bump into her, then either make excuses and leave or be cival. Dont demand to know who this guy is or why she wont come back cause then it just shows youre still stuck up on her and you dont want her to know that. Showing you dont care and moving on with your life puts them in their place and they realise that they arent he center of your universe anymore. Trust me, it hurts them more.
 
All I have to say is move on. Just look back on the relationship and think of thing you might have been wrong on like maybe smothering or something and try to change that but don't change who you are. Plenty o' Fish in the Sea ol chap....catch yourself a one worthy of bringin home to the folks
 
Unless you know then its best not to hand out adivce that wont work. How can you say moving on wont help? So hes basically to stay the way he is, uspet, mopping after his ex? If thats the truth, then no one has any chance of finding someone else and becoming happy.

Moving on is the only way you can get on with your life. I moved on and Im happier with my relationship. It has had its ups and downs, but thats due to my guys life at the moment.
 
I really Want to move on...but its just so darn hard..lol...Then Her Boyfriend Comes into my class..and starts cussin at me for no reason...sooooo He hits me and then we get a huge fight ( I just took out all my anger on him) and now im gettin charges because I hit him back...That BS he hit me first and I get charges...lol...I really dont care tho because it felt so darn good...And i know..Fighting is not the answer but...............
 
If she's dating another guy just to piss you off for absolutely no reason whatsoever, then it's high time you realize that this chick's a BITCH.
 
I really Want to move on...but its just so darn hard..lol...
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Go. NOW. Just talk to some chicks that you think are hot. If she's really dating this guy to piss you off, that'll really jam a pineapple up her ass. Besides, beating up that prick got you some reputation, I'm sure of it. Just talk to some girls that like a badass.

What are you getting charged for, defending yourself? I think there's something that you're not telling us... Like maybe you and her had a fight over the phone recently? Or you said something bad about her and someone leaked it, she bitched at you and you told her off?
 
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I agree.
Why did she break up with you in the first place?
 
Wow, If that's the case, then I'd move on.

Trust me, there isn't woman on the face of this Earth that's worth getting into a fist fight over.

I was in a long-term relationship with my last serious girlfriend for about 2 1/2 years. So, if you've just broken up, I know what you're going through. Being with someone that long definitely make you feel complacent and secure, but once that element is removed, it's feels like the whole world as you knew it, just ended. I know that the pain is really bad right know and you can't image things without her, but trust me, as each day goes by the pain will become less and less. Eventually, in a short amount of time you will fully get over it and never look back.

The most important thing is to focus on yourself right now. Like I said, you will get over it and at your age, you have a lot more relationships to look forward to, not to mention life.

Remember! There is always something better than someone or something you've experienced!
 
The best way to get back with an ex girlfriend is to show that you don't care at all that she broke up with your/she's with a new guy or anything of the sort. Because that will definately lead to disaster.
 
Well, I agree with everyone else. Don't try to get back with her, it will be better off if you meet other people. Though you could get her back, by dating other girls and well try to make her jealous. If she doesn't do anything, then she doesn't care and neither should you.
 
I dont believe getting someone else purely to make your ex jealpus is the answer. Youre stooping down to her level. Ignore her, that'll upset her more and show you dont give a crap about her. Shes obivously chosen a complete prick who randomly causes trouble, so let her deal with the jerk.

Have some quality "you" time, take up a new hobby or go out with friends more, socialise. You have been given your life back. I was doing nothing when I met my new guy, I wasnt looking for a relationship and it just happened. Dont go looking for love, let it find you.
 
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