Ok, here's my story and thoughts....
About a year and a half ago I had a crush on this guy and he started showing interest in me. So we went on a few casual dates, and me being me I started falling for him. Little did I know, he was going on casual dates with another girl (who ironically has the same name as me. Very convenient). So fast forward a few weeks later I begin thinking about the possibility of us being boyfriend/girlfriend. Turns out he wants to be FWB. He basically felt nothing for me emotionally, but thought I had awesome tits. Yeah....
But the other girl? He wanted a relationship with her, but she didn't want one with him. He had his heart broken (much like he broke mine) and on the inside I was happy that he had his heart broken by her. BUT like an idiot I kept hooking up with him thinking that maybe he would somehow fall for me too. Of course that didn't happen. Though at one point he did say he wanted to try again between us, but as a couple. Aka dating. Aka what I wanted. Well, that didn't work out and I had my heart broken again. Fast forward to today and we hooked up (again) at several points but right now we're just friends. If you could really call it that.
Moral of the story: FWB is bad news. Someone will end up with their heart broken, and friendships are ruined. At least from my experience it seems that way
About a year and a half ago I had a crush on this guy and he started showing interest in me. So we went on a few casual dates, and me being me I started falling for him. Little did I know, he was going on casual dates with another girl (who ironically has the same name as me. Very convenient). So fast forward a few weeks later I begin thinking about the possibility of us being boyfriend/girlfriend. Turns out he wants to be FWB. He basically felt nothing for me emotionally, but thought I had awesome tits. Yeah....
But the other girl? He wanted a relationship with her, but she didn't want one with him. He had his heart broken (much like he broke mine) and on the inside I was happy that he had his heart broken by her. BUT like an idiot I kept hooking up with him thinking that maybe he would somehow fall for me too. Of course that didn't happen. Though at one point he did say he wanted to try again between us, but as a couple. Aka dating. Aka what I wanted. Well, that didn't work out and I had my heart broken again. Fast forward to today and we hooked up (again) at several points but right now we're just friends. If you could really call it that.
Moral of the story: FWB is bad news. Someone will end up with their heart broken, and friendships are ruined. At least from my experience it seems that way