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Aztec Triogal

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Just out of curiosity, what are people's views on relationships and intimacy on here... for a typical relationship. In other words, you meet a new guy/girl and things click, what's your thoughts for the bedroom. Is cuddling as far as you go? Do you rush into bed with them? Maybe after a few months? Never anything till marriage?

For me, I'm definitely pro-hanky-panky. And although I don't really want to wait a really long time before I get the goods, I don't like sleezy women. I don't like it when women give it all away upfront. Also, although I've had one or two one night stands, I'm definitely not a fan. I'd much rather have a serious relationship than trying to figure your way around a new figure every night. A person you know and care about is always going to make the time in the sack much more meaningful than some girl who you had to help stagger from her barstool to your bedroom.
 
I wait a few months to go to the bedroom..but when i go to the Bedroom we dont have sex or anything we just lay down and watch a movie or something
 
In my honest opinion Aztec, it depends. Sex is one of the most vital parts of any relationship for me. I simply can't help it. I've found that even if a I like a girl so much so that it verges on puppy love, if she didn't give it up eventually (two to three months at most) I'd still cheat on her with a woman who would. However, sex truly does complicate matters with a woman that you want to continue seeing in a romantic manner. It simply does. However, I've found that the pros outweigh the cons. It solves more problems than it causes. I guess, what I'm trying (and miserably failing) to say is that I find I need the sex within a half a year of the relationship. If there's no chance of that, then I can't continue to see that person faithfully. I'd still date her, but I'd have to cheat on her to get my fix elsewhere. Does that make sense? Let me give you guys a true story:

That is to say, let's say I was madly infatuated with Jennifer (which I am) and we start dating. If I find out that she's a "good girl" and won't do anything sexual, that is to say anything where the male reproductive organ comes into contact with any part of her female anatomy, even though we've been dating for about a half a year, I'm gonna cheat on her with Janine (which I did). This would continue in this manner, where I'd datefu@k Janine until about ten months into our relationship Jennifer would surprise me by telling me that she's ready, and we'd be in bed and we'd be getting intimate and I'd accidentally call her "Janine" (since I'm so used to having carnal relations with Janine and not Jennifer) and this would lead to a tremendous fight which would then lead her to confront Janine and then they both find out that I'd been two timing them both and I get the boot and somehow my car ends up getting keyed. Yeah, that's pretty much how it goes! XP

Sorry for the rant AT, but hopefully it gets my point across.




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~The Legendary Wullfe
Jennifer but
 
I don´t think you should really rush things to fast...but if two people just give a couple of kissed and then are already ready for "natural desires!"

Problem is always am to fast for girls to keep it up and end up getting slapped around...:worried:
 
Back in the day, I was a bit of a player - one night stands were a common thing. Now I have settled down with a nice girl and have had our first child.
 
hmmmm im not really big on relationships myself i can never stick them out, i get bored so quickly bein with one person. I prefer bein single doin what i want to do when i want to.

Although you dont sex as often bein single i still prefer it.
Maybe a few years down the line i might settle down:dry: if i find sum1 i really click with, but til then im doin it for me.
 
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