Judas!

[Daenerys]

Have you ever been really close to someone, just to have them betray you? If so how did you react?

I'm really close to 2 of my friends, and vice versa, well one of them went and did several cuntish things behind our backs, that could have gotten us into a load of shit with other friends. So, we kinda had a massive argument on MSN, with someone else, where we got her to admit she was wrong. Win.

I haven't been as close to her since like...but she's been loads better since we had that massive blowout. I think she just gets left out because she's the only girl in the trio, so she acts out so we keep paying her attention...

 

[Dean Winchester]

Have you ever been really close to someone, just to have them betray you? If so how did you react?

I'm really close to 2 of my friends, and vice versa, well one of them went and did several cuntish things behind our backs, that could have gotten us into a load of shit with other friends. So, we kinda had a massive argument on MSN, with someone else, where we got her to admit she was wrong. Win.

I haven't been as close to her since like...but she's been loads better since we had that massive blowout. I think she just gets left out because she's the only girl in the trio, so she acts out so we keep paying her attention...

You nailed the source of my problem. Yes, actually one of my friends (well she) actually betrayed me, she is such backstabber. I don't want to fill in details because every time I remember it, I just build up anger and the problem is that the anger won't stop rising unless I take a deep breath and relax for a few minutes of meditation. The point is that her "actions" someone set me on a very "volatile" mood, and I just can't seem to get rid of this rage. And you do know what's worse? The fact that she lives next to MY house and that I can't get her OUT of my head.

 

[Daenerys]

Have you tried confronting her? That's what Jake and I did when Lucy got way too big for her boots, sure it was horrible, complicated, and we didn't really speak to her for awhile, but it sorted out the problem.

 

[Dean Winchester]

Right now, it wouldn't be a good idea because I would just take all my rage against her accomplice (who was my former best friend and lives next to my house as well, and is a he) because no matter how angry I can be at her, she just nullifies me by looking at my eyes, I feel so defenseless.

I just feel like a Time Bomb, and sometimes I do manage to calm myself down but when I see her, just the sound of her voice triggers the rage. My heartbeat increases, my blood pressure raises, my hands begins to shake and adrenaline keeps pumping up.

Maybe the "swallow rage and pretend it didn't happen" wasn't just a good idea. Look what it did to me....

 

[Miss Valentine]

Funny, I was just thinking of an example of that today!!

Back when I first met my ex, I was really good friends with a guy, we'd gotten through our 'A' levels together and talked about everything, I really trusted him. It was time to go to Uni but we wanted to keep in touch, we even visited each other from time to time. But he started acting strange, a lot of weird sex talk, it kinda freaked me out but I didn't want to lost my friend so I just tolerated it. Finally I started to meet new people and he didn't like it, he was quite possessive of me. I met my ex working at Heaven And Hell, we were friends for a short while then we started going out. I told my friend I was seeing someone...and he cut me off.

I didn't know why he did that, perhaps he was jealous, but I soon learned that he wasn't a true friend- my ex eventually started abusing me, he would make me stay at home so I wouldn't be able to leave, and he really messed up my mind, I still have trouble with confidence to this very day.

But sometimes I would think about my friend- if he'd stuck around and not cut me off, would he have stopped my ex before he could hurt me? I had no-one else except my family, and they couldn't see what was happening to me. I don't want to blame that friend for what happened, but for some reason I still feel betrayed, like he used me and then left me open to people like my ex.

But guys, rage really isn't the answer, nobody can control the actions of others, whether they mean good or harm. That's human nature, people do things to hurt us without an apparent reason. I can't help with the individual situations, but people like that really aren't worth anyone's time or effort. I still hear about my friend, but I would never dream of contacting him again, it's better that he's out of my life. People can be very provocative, but you can be the better person and rise above it.

 

[Dean Winchester]

But guys, rage really isn't the answer, nobody can control the actions of others, whether they mean good or harm. That's human nature, people do things to hurt us without an apparent reason. I can't help with the individual situations, but people like that really aren't worth anyone's time or effort. I still hear about my friend, but I would never dream of contacting him again, it's better that he's out of my life. People can be very provocative, but you can be the better person and rise above it.

I wonder if consuming Protein Shakes and Creatine had something to do with my sudden rage build up....
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......NAH!
They don't do that, right?


Also during a discussion in my Humanities class, my teacher told us that women represent the power of "Creation" while men represent the power of "Destruction".

The problem is, that rage drives me to give rise to a darker part of myself. While enraged, I love to fight, specially long drawn out competitions, hence why I once entered several Martial Arts Tournaments. I know rage is not the answer, but is certainly something hard to control.

 

[Miss Valentine]

I guess if it's that much a part of you, then dampening it down probably wouldn't work. It's good that you've acknowledged ways to channel it though, with martial arts etc. Maybe that's the best way to go, instead of directing it at people who don't even deserve your attention, do things that are constructive and make you happy.

Me, I rarely get enraged, just very low and sad. There have been a couple of times when I've lost my temper, but not often, it's not me I guess. I have to admit though, sometimes when I get narked with things I wish I could just explode and have done with it, instead of just pushing the feeling down.

 

[Jimmy]

I was backstabbed several times, but it had nothing to do with girlfriends and stuff like that...it's actually more school related.

You see i'm the kind of guy who as a very difficult time saying no to anyone, i feel bad if i don't help out my friends and schoolmates when they ask me to help them, even when i know that they are just lazy to try and do things for myself. Sometimes i give them my reports, that i have to do for Biology and Chemistry. Well last year a friend of mine girl asked me if i could send her my report to help her out, she said that she had some problems at home and was not able to do the Chemistry report in time, so good old Jimmy sent his own report...i asked her not to copy and just use it for backup, but i should have known that it was not going to happen since it was 7pm and the report had to be delivered at 9am the following day. So about a week later i suffered an embarrasing blow, the teacher gave me and her a zero...and went as far as saying that i had cheated, i said i had not cheated from anyone and that the grade was unfair, and you know what my friend did? Nothing...just stood there, watching me take the blame, but yet again i was stupid to the point of not saying it was she who copied my work.

At the end of class she did not say anything, and she blocked me on MSN afterwards

I was angry...perhaps i still am, but i don't even talk to her anymore specially since she likes to hang with the bad crowd of my class now. But like my dad told me:

"Next time don't be dumb, and don't trust others, cause nobody in this world except you're own family will look out for you! You gave her your work and ended up getting screwed."

Also i'm not the kind of guy to get angry just like Miss Valentine, i just feel like i was a fool for trusting someone who i considered to be a friend with something that affected my "professional" school work.

 

[Moogles]

Betrayed? No, I don't believe I've been betrayed. I'm pretty laid back, so there isn't a whole lot of drama of that sort in my life.

If someone close to me were to betray me, it probably wouldn't affect me much...depending on who exactly betrayed me. I'd take it much harder if someone in my family went Judas on me as opposed to a friend.

 

[Bei Bei]

My former best friend betrayed me. You would think after 7 years our friendship would mean something to her, but in the end she even admitted that she didn't care if we were friends or not.

And it was all because of a boy, my boyfriend to be more accurate. She got jealous and I have no idea why because she already had a boyfriend.

 

[Davey Gaga]

Have you ever been really close to someone, just to have them betray you? If so how did you react?

I'm really close to 2 of my friends, and vice versa, well one of them went and did several cuntish things behind our backs, that could have gotten us into a load of shit with other friends. So, we kinda had a massive argument on MSN, with someone else, where we got her to admit she was wrong. Win.

I haven't been as close to her since like...but she's been loads better since we had that massive blowout. I think she just gets left out because she's the only girl in the trio, so she acts out so we keep paying her attention...

You and your e-handbag.

I really don't think I've ever been betrayed before. I've had the odd thing where a group of friends have run off with another group and left me behind with a select few (Jane, you should actually know what I'm talking about xD) but I don't really consider that a betrayal.

I honestly don't think someone's even broken my trust, come to think of it. Not in real life, anyway - I'm dismissing the internet. xD

 

[Fusilli]

I really don't think I've ever been betrayed before. I've had the odd thing where a group of friends have run off with another group and left me behind with a select few (Jane, you should actually know what I'm talking about xD) but I don't really consider that a betrayal.

I do know, and I wouldn't count that as betrayal. That was basically just a case of finding new friends and moving on, you can't expect to be friends forever, especially when you're about 14 or whatever it was. xD

I've never really been betrayed by my friends either though... Okay so there was one time where a certain girl came along and turned all of my friends against me for absolutely no reason, but we were 10 so I forgive them. XD

 

[Mitsuki]

My former best friend betrayed me. You would think after 7 years our friendship would mean something to her, but in the end she even admitted that she didn't care if we were friends or not.

And it was all because of a boy, my boyfriend to be more accurate. She got jealous and I have no idea why because she already had a boyfriend.

Hrm. This kinda reminds me of a situation between me and my friend a long time ago...which sprouted up again a year and a half ago. Long story, so I won't bother, but in a way, I felt betrayed by her because she said a lot of hurtful things - almost demeaning in a way. Of course, we've made up and all, but sometimes, even if a person says sorry after and is already forgiven, time doesn't really seem to heal old wounds just because the words still lingers somewhere.

Other than that, I can't really recall anything else. I've done my share of betraying other people, although not on purpose...but now that many years have passed and my mind seem to comprehend things a lot better, I view the fact that I didn't say anything to my mom when my dad got married secretly...a betrayal.

My dad, bro, and I would spend weekends on my stepmom's apartment and everyone was happy, especially me and my bro since we got toys and everything we ever wanted...and not once did I write any letters to my mom who lives in the Philippines and told her what was going on. Instead, she found out from others. That to me is a betrayal on my part that I can never forgive myself for. (Even though my dad did the most damage).