raiden95
bahamut slayer
you have to stop being blind by love.whip the darkness out of your eyes and follow your heart,not your gut.sooner or later,you will find the right one.trust me.i believe in you.(even if i don't know you.)
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Sirsparrow
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Honestly?
I have two suggestions.
(a) Man up.
or
(b) Grow the fcuk up.
You don't want to be with the one at school. That's fine. Stop treating her like shit and stop acting like a spoilt little brat. She has feelings too and you've just trampled over them. It takes a tremendous amount of courage for someone to do things like that and the last thing they need is some asshole dismissing it without any consideration for her feelings.
Perhaps try and stop being paranoid. But I don't think you can just decide on that. The Italian girl is a no hoper and the sooner you realise that, the better.
I have two suggestions.
(a) Man up.
or
(b) Grow the fcuk up.
You don't want to be with the one at school. That's fine. Stop treating her like shit and stop acting like a spoilt little brat. She has feelings too and you've just trampled over them. It takes a tremendous amount of courage for someone to do things like that and the last thing they need is some asshole dismissing it without any consideration for her feelings.
Perhaps try and stop being paranoid. But I don't think you can just decide on that. The Italian girl is a no hoper and the sooner you realise that, the better.
Well, now you know for sure that this girl from school likes you. Now it's a matter of choosing which one you'd rather be with. Like I said earlier, I don't know how long you plan on being away from Italy, but if you're going to be away for over a year, then I'd say you should make the effort to make the girl from school your girlfriend. You know she likes you already, but it does take 2 to tango. So if you really don't have interest in this girl, then forget about her and wait on the other girl.
I mean, this is all coming from me, and I'm not a believer in the long-distance relationship, or waiting around for an extended period of time to be with 1 girl. And the fact that when you mentioned to the girl from Italy if she had a boyfriend, and she over-reacted, then I'd say that has guilt written all over it. Continuous accusations are 1 thing, but it's natural to ask a boyfriend/girlfriend if they're seeing anybody when you've been away from them for a very long time. A simple asking of the question gives away a lot more information than just a basic answer with anger behind it. Naturally I didn't hear the reaction myself, so I couldn't say for sure, but I'd be aware of it and at least have a thought that it might be the case.
But, you know for sure now about the girl from school. "Now you know, and knowing is half the battle." /GIJoe slogan
But you can take advantage of this additional information and the decision may be a little more clear to you. Best of luck sir!
I mean, this is all coming from me, and I'm not a believer in the long-distance relationship, or waiting around for an extended period of time to be with 1 girl. And the fact that when you mentioned to the girl from Italy if she had a boyfriend, and she over-reacted, then I'd say that has guilt written all over it. Continuous accusations are 1 thing, but it's natural to ask a boyfriend/girlfriend if they're seeing anybody when you've been away from them for a very long time. A simple asking of the question gives away a lot more information than just a basic answer with anger behind it. Naturally I didn't hear the reaction myself, so I couldn't say for sure, but I'd be aware of it and at least have a thought that it might be the case.
But, you know for sure now about the girl from school. "Now you know, and knowing is half the battle." /GIJoe slogan
But you can take advantage of this additional information and the decision may be a little more clear to you. Best of luck sir!
I read original post, and few down, so excuse me if the following has already been addressed.
Relationships are about being happy. If you are happy with your girl in Italy, then stay with her. If you think you would be happier with this new girl, date her. Don't be a twat and lie to either of them. Just be honest about your feelings and do what feels best to you. You're only obligated by the words that come out of your mouth. If you would be happier with your girl in italy, but the distance and time are making you unhappy, then you might wanna explain that. Two years is way too long for a long distance relationship unless you are truly, and I mean truly in love like married/planning a life together forever.
Relationships are about being happy. If you are happy with your girl in Italy, then stay with her. If you think you would be happier with this new girl, date her. Don't be a twat and lie to either of them. Just be honest about your feelings and do what feels best to you. You're only obligated by the words that come out of your mouth. If you would be happier with your girl in italy, but the distance and time are making you unhappy, then you might wanna explain that. Two years is way too long for a long distance relationship unless you are truly, and I mean truly in love like married/planning a life together forever.
I see what you guys mean. Also Im not being an ass to her Im just merely trying to tell this girl that I have a girlfriend already. But anyway she agreed to be just friends. So now we just hug. No kisses whatoever. Its either a hug or a handshake. This girl likes me I can see. I know she does. But my girl in Italy is the one Im going with. Yes she is being sweet. Infact here is an experience today. I had some gum(dentyme ice or whatever its called) "She said Hey Adriano can I have one"? I said sure with a smile on my face. She replied "Awwww you are so sweet". I laughed. She then procceded with a nice "run hug" to me. It was nice. She then started laughing and said "we are friends right"? I said Hahhaha Ya. She is certainely just a sweet girl and not one that is crazy for sex. I was fucking wrong. She has such a sweet smile too. I wish I can take em both tbfh.
Then break it off with your girl in Italy and pursue something tangible that makes you happy.
I wish I can take both girls is what I mean. But that would be hard for me and I have already decided that This girl and I are friends and I am staying with my gf in Italy. When I say both it means I wish I can date them both. BuT Then they are mos likely going to become lesbians or something LOL. Hhaahah. In looks I can say that it is a tie but this girl has a better personality. But still its hard D: