Cheating In A Relationship

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Have you ever cheated on your significant other? Or has your significant other ever cheated on you? What kind of feelings and emotions did you go through? Also, "Once a cheat, always a cheat." Do you believe this statement is true? Share your experiences here and remember, respect other people's views and opinons.
 
Never have I ever cheated nor will I. As far as I know, none have ever cheated on me. I find cheating a deplorable act because it's an act of cowardice. Don't love the one you're with? Leave the one you're with. Be with the one you love (or lust). Don't be so cowardly and fess up to your partner. Hiding infidelity only prompts resentment and ruins your intergerity.

Wow, that started to sound like a rant, didn't it? XD
 
Cheating who you're with is the most coward thing a guy/girl can do. If you dont love them, have the guts to tell them you no longer want to be with them, but dont go behind their backs.

My xbf cheated on me, i got so mad..i asked my best friend to tell him to get the hell away from me (for his own good, i have a VERY bad temper) and gave my best friend the things he gave me...>_< It really hurts...but its over, cry for one day, move on the next ^^

And i believe that its true. Because if u forgave them once, whats stopping them from doing it again? they know u'll forgive them anyway...cheating is not only unfair but a disgusting thing to do.
 
I dont generally like it but sometimes ppl are cowards. I just tell them nicely that i need to move on and they mostly understand except for 1 girl who pissed me so much when i tried to do it.
 
You don't generally like it? I should hope not! :lol:

I've never had the chance to cheat, or the chance to be cheated (if you don't get that, nevermind ;))

I agree with the "once a cheat, always a cheat" view, because that lust for the excitement and danger of the act will always be there - you know you can get away with it if you are accepted. You can't say "it meant nothing", because that speaks for your own relationship - you're willing to throw it away for "nothing".

The love must not have been strong enough for you to feel the need to cheat.
 
Not really sure about it myself since I have never had the chance for that to happen, but people who do it usually end up hated by everyone and rumors start.(My sister was part of something like this). Cheating is a bad thing me thinks.
 
I've only been in one REAL relationship, and I've never cheated. I don't have a reason to. I was in a kindof relationship, but that didn't last too long. And I didn't cheat in that on either.
 
Cheating in a relationship isn't good, and never will it be. I haven't been on any boy-girl relationship before..until now. I just don't like the idea to cheat in a relationship just 'coz you want out. Cheating was never a solution. It just adds to the problem you're having. If you want out then be a man and say so. Cheating, for me, is an act of cowardice. Only cowards who don't have the guts to say what they want to say do that.
 
i don't think it's good to do it...because when it happens to you,you'll feel the same way...
 
I have never cheated on a girl/woman that I've been with. I have however been cheated on. I didna like the feeling and I cant understand why anyone would cheat to begin with. As to once a cheat always a cheat statement I think it is true.

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Ha, I could go on for hours on this topic. lol

I half agree/disagree with the 'Once a cheat aleways a cheat' thing. Sometimes, things happen. Sometimes, you're just a coward. *shrugs* It goes both ways.

But either way, I hate cheaters. They all deserve to ROT.But that's just my opinion. ^_^
 
i don't like cheating either.
but if someone do that on me he's gonna regret it and of course he's gonna pay it as well.
but if i do it,that i don't like cheating,i'm sure that i'll never do it cause i don't want to make the other feel bad.
 
Cheating is like bad man...thats like one of the lowest things ever IMO anyway. Like others say dont be a coward to tell the other that you dont like/love them anymore. Now for my experiences...i have never cheated but i had the oppertunity too...but i knew if i did it it would hurt my gf at the time and i dont liek hurtin peeps. oh and ive never been cheated on...that i know of anyway... as for the once a cheat always a cheat...damn right its true...like Riku said the excitement and lust thing will always be there...SO DONT CHEAT MAN ITS NOT COOL!!!
 
I went out with my girlfriend for 4 years. I never cheated. After we broke up, my best friend moved in on her. We were still talking and stuff, but now that pulled her away from me. I know it's not cheating, but If we were still talking, then... IDK, it still sux.
 
One of my friends was recently cheated on by her boyfriend. The result was hours of intense crying on my shoulder and a good old bitch about the guy. There's no gain from cheating, for anybody.
 
My boyfriend who i'm with now cheated on me while i was on holiday. I broke up with him because of it, but i know that people learn from their mistakes, so I got back with him and have been back with him for a long time now, and he has never given me reason to doubt his faithfulness since. I think everuone should be forgiven and given a second chance, if no one can give people second chances then whats society gotten itself into?
I dont believe the once a cheater always a cheater, at all, because my boyfriends parents have been together since they were in high school, and they have both cheated on each other, and now live happily married, and have been for 26 years, and have never even looked at anyone else since. people can be stupid at times, but as i say, people can learn from their mistakes and everyone deserves a second chance.
 
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