Abortion - Should the Father Have A Say?

[Lirael]

Of course the man should have a say, it takes 2 to tango baby. If you are not planning on having any children, then use condoms or the woman should be on birth control. It's really that simple. I'm all about planned parenthood anyway. Life is a beautiful thing and if you want to create life by welcoming a baby, have it all planned out so you can be prepared and not have to make a hard decision about whether or not to keep the child if you think you aren't ready. At least that's the way i see it.

-Setz-

The problem is, people can get pregnant even when they're using two forms of contraception, perhaps even after being told they can't have children at all naturally. :/ If people haven't been careful, I feel more negative about them having an abortion since they're then being disrespectful and forget the importance and sanctity of life, but it's more difficult when people have done everything they can to prevent getting pregnant but do anyway. :/

 

[Setzer007]

^ I have never heard of any cases like that so i don't really know what to say regarding that type of situation. Especially if the girl is using birth control pills

It would indeed be a hard desicion to make, but personally, i think everybody deserves a chance at life so i am against the whole abortion thing.

-Setz-

 

[Lirael]

^ I have never heard of any cases like that so i don't really know what to say regarding that type of situation. Especially if the girl is using birth control pills

It would indeed be a hard desicion to make, but personally, i think everybody deserves a chance at life so i am against the whole abortion thing.

-Setz-

That's all fair enough.

I have two friends who've both become pregnant whilst on the pill, and a friend's sister became pregnant whilst using a couple of birth control methods. The whole idea terrifies me. Luckily they both wanted children! But it must be very hard for those who can't face the idea of being pregnant, who do everything they can, yet conceive children - and know their partner is passionate about children.