Love

True love is real and everyone in the world has that one special person they will feel it for.

(Only part of Sephiroth's Will's quote.)

I remember hearing this from a close friend. It's common sense, but I had never really thought about it. There are more females then males in this world. I wonder how everyone could have 'that one special person'. I don't think everybody could have mate. If everybody paired off, their would probably be at least a few thousand strangling males left behind. At least. Maybe even females.

(And I don't believe in same gender pairings. I don't think their can be real, true, soul-mate/mate type feelings in those relationships. Maybe love, but not the type of love I'm thinking of.)
 
(Only part of Sephiroth's Will's quote.)

I remember hearing this from a close friend. It's common sense, but I had never really thought about it. There are more females then males in this world. I wonder how everyone could have 'that one special person'. I don't think everybody could have mate. If everybody paired off, their would probably be at least a few thousand strangling males left behind. At least. Maybe even females.

(And I don't believe in same gender pairings. I don't think their can be real, true, soul-mate/mate type feelings in those relationships. Maybe love, but not the type of love I'm thinking of.)
Currently, yes. But people are being bron everyday, that figure could change. There's also homosexual love to take in to consideration.
 
As I said in the post two posts ago, I don't really go along with the homosexual pairings. I don't really think you can find a true-love, lifelong mate relationship in somebody of the same gender. I mean, the human race couldn't even go on if that's all there were.

And even if more people are born each day, there always seems to be more girls. Even from that, what if there's an odd number of people on the planet. There will always be at least one left out.
 
I am now, I really love my girlfriend and I would anything 4 her.
Im not obcessed with her (like some people get and think its love) I just really like her, this is my longest relationship so far and I really trust her and I think trust is essencial to a relationship
 
As I said in the post two posts ago, I don't really go along with the homosexual pairings. I don't really think you can find a true-love, lifelong mate relationship in somebody of the same gender. I mean, the human race couldn't even go on if that's all there were.

And even if more people are born each day, there always seems to be more girls. Even from that, what if there's an odd number of people on the planet. There will always be at least one left out.

That post shows that you're only thinking of homosexual sex. We're talking about love.
 
I've been in love before. I'm 17 but I understand more than other teenagers what love is. Love isn't about sex or touching each other...although it can be. It's about caring deeply about the person you're with and your wish to make them happy.

When I go into relationships now, I actually just do it for fun because I'm 17. I have my 20s to look for the one I want to be with for the rest of my life. I should enjoy what I have right now.
 
I've been in love before. I'm 17 but I understand more than other teenagers what love is. Love isn't about sex or touching each other...although it can be. It's about caring deeply about the person you're with and your wish to make them happy.

When I go into relationships now, I actually just do it for fun because I'm 17. I have my 20s to look for the one I want to be with for the rest of my life. I should enjoy what I have right now.

You speaks the truths there.

I don't know why all us teenagers an obsessed with finding the "one"

It all seems a bit crap.
 
I've never really been in love, yet. It's always been puppy love, or falling for guys way older than me that are famous. I have a crush, but I wouldn't necessarily consider that love. I'm not writing his name everywhere on my 'diary'.
 
I wanted to know if anyone here has ever been in love. I dont mean puppy love i mean truly in love . What effect did it have on you? I was in love once and the person i was in love with Was the first thing i thought of when iwoke up in the morning and the last thing i thought about before i fell asleep.I spent every waking moment thinking about her. The way her eyes sparkled. The fell of her skin. and the tatse of her lips. I wanted to know if anyone else has ever been in a similar situation and your thoughts about love.Currently i have someone i think about all the time...i could defnitely see myslef loving this person eventually...you know who you are if youre reading this.But i dont know if i want to be in love again.If you have indeed been in love has it impacted you in a positive or negative way?

Man, I felt like I was in love with a girl once. She made me feel so damn sick and queasy whenever I thought about her. It was so hard to sleep and eat, I couldn't concentrate in school. We were together for almost a Year, but every minute I was with her felt so great. I finally grew up and realized that we were just in love not "In Love" if you know what I mean. But i know how you feel, I thought about her day in and day out, It made my grades slip, and my Work productivity slip. Finally we started to argue and I realized that she wasn't that great. Love is a scary thing my friend, but when you meet the right person, it can be the best thing in the world.
 
Man, I felt like I was in love with a girl once. She made me feel so damn sick and queasy whenever I thought about her. It was so hard to sleep and eat, I couldn't concentrate in school. We were together for almost a Year, but every minute I was with her felt so great. I finally grew up and realized that we were just in love not "In Love" if you know what I mean. But i know how you feel, I thought about her day in and day out, It made my grades slip, and my Work productivity slip. Finally we started to argue and I realized that she wasn't that great. Love is a scary thing my friend, but when you meet the right person, it can be the best thing in the world.

i found out recently love is a waste of time my friend
 
Who cares man, you have a good job and your practically rich. Hot girls like rich guys, unfortanetlly it is not real love, but real love is hard to come by either way.
 
That post shows that you're only thinking of homosexual sex. We're talking about love.

*Applauds* Thank you! :lolz:

Anyway, if love is one thing I'm sure we can all agree it's complicated. It's one thing to live on your own and fend for yourself; quite another to have another to look after/care/worry about. After all, you're dealing with a person who doesn't have the same thoughts, opinions, and reactions - so unless you're in great communication about all aspects of life, it's like the average person trying to predict the future (that's just not going to happen.) So all those who don't give up on love, I hold a deep respect for.

Those of you who were crushed by bad experiences, I urge you not to give up. Why? Because love gives you something indescribable. And before you yell at me with something along the lines of "YEAH, PAIN AND --" no, and you know that. I don't have to tell you that (but I will, because I just love explaining things.) You knew how you felt when you were in love - it was different, it was special, it was... something to look forward to when you woke up each morning, no? And isn't that worth fighting for?
 
*Applauds* Thank you! :lolz:

You're welcome :P

Anyway, if love is one thing I'm sure we can all agree it's complicated. It's one thing to live on your own and fend for yourself; quite another to have another to look after/care/worry about. After all, you're dealing with a person who doesn't have the same thoughts, opinions, and reactions - so unless you're in great communication about all aspects of life, it's like the average person trying to predict the future (that's just not going to happen.) So all those who don't give up on love, I hold a deep respect for.

Those of you who were crushed by bad experiences, I urge you not to give up. Why? Because love gives you something indescribable. And before you yell at me with something along the lines of "YEAH, PAIN AND --" no, and you know that. I don't have to tell you that (but I will, because I just love explaining things.) You knew how you felt when you were in love - it was different, it was special, it was... something to look forward to when you woke up each morning, no? And isn't that worth fighting for?
Exactly. It's silly to give up. Having that feeling where your heart is warm, it beats fast, you think about that person before you go to sleep, thinking about that person throughout the day, enjoying every minute of talking to them. I think this balances out what happens in bad experiences. It's inevitable that people will have a few mis-haps in relationships, but trying to push through that and getting back on your feet is what you need to do. Sure, I've felt like giving up a few times, but you know, I like feeling as mentioned above, over what happens in a bad case. Surely, there's bound to be a time where it doesn't end bad.
 
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