Captain Buggy
Ex-Soldier
A lot of people tell me they dont like me without even outright sating it. It amounts to the same thing- and I simply just stay consistent or adapt by saying nothing.
I have a great memory for personal events that have happened in my past and I can honestly say I don't recall if it happened or not. But it's possible that it has happened and I don't remember. If this is the case, then it goes to show how I felt about it, because it never had an effect on me, not even an immediate one.
In my time, most tended to stay distant from me. I'm not exactly sure why, but it's possible my appearence tends to scare people a bit. My general facial expression looks angry to begin with, and I think most would just avoid confrontation. Seeing me angry is even more intimidating. I could always tell if someone didn't like me, but they would never have to courage to say it to my face. I guess I'm sort of lucky to look the way I do. Even making friends isn't easy for me because I tend to give a bad first impression, but then after people get to know me, they see I'm not a person to use intimidation and that I really am a friendly person, if given the chance to show it, of course.
The bottom line is, you'll never satisfy everyone in your lifetime, so there's no reason to feel obligated to try. I'm well aware that my personality will conflict with some, it's the case for everyone. But I have too many things in life to worry about, so someone telling me they don't like me is very irrelevant. Not to mention that worry about how others see you is even more irrelevant. So long as your family and friends approve, who gives a damn what anyone else thinks.
In my time, most tended to stay distant from me. I'm not exactly sure why, but it's possible my appearence tends to scare people a bit. My general facial expression looks angry to begin with, and I think most would just avoid confrontation. Seeing me angry is even more intimidating. I could always tell if someone didn't like me, but they would never have to courage to say it to my face. I guess I'm sort of lucky to look the way I do. Even making friends isn't easy for me because I tend to give a bad first impression, but then after people get to know me, they see I'm not a person to use intimidation and that I really am a friendly person, if given the chance to show it, of course.
The bottom line is, you'll never satisfy everyone in your lifetime, so there's no reason to feel obligated to try. I'm well aware that my personality will conflict with some, it's the case for everyone. But I have too many things in life to worry about, so someone telling me they don't like me is very irrelevant. Not to mention that worry about how others see you is even more irrelevant. So long as your family and friends approve, who gives a damn what anyone else thinks.