How Did You Meet Your SO?

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I am just curious how you guys met your SO? I've shared my story numerous times and I thought I'd go ahead and share it with you guys. So was it meant-to-be? Was it fate? Are you still searching? Maybe my story will help keep you all positive on finding "the one" because I feel mine was fate. This is how my husband and I met. I used to be one who wasn't all that big into internet relationships, but...

I was living at home with my parents and the only real escape I had from school and them was the internet. At this point in time, I really enjoyed going into Yahoo chatrooms and just meeting people, talking and having fun after school on the computer.

So anyway, I met this person by the name of Guitargod and mine was FlyGirl. We got to talking and we both downloaded Yahoo Messenger. We talked every single day. We became fast friends and I would spill my guts to him about things that bothered me, etc...well, we talked and stayed close, online friends for 2 years until the day my parents kicked me out and I was sent back to Indiana to live with my grandma.

I lost touch with Guitargod and didn't get a chance to tell him I was leaving or anything. So, I'm living in Indiana, got a job, and meet this girl I work with by the name of Courtney. We get to be really good friends and she offers me to come out and meet "The guys" (all of her friends) one night so I could get to know more people around the area. I agreed, but can be pretty shy around a lot of people.

So, she tells me that "the guys" are hanging out at her cousin's house. We drive out there after work and I walked in and met all these people I didn't know. Me, being my shy self, sat down in a chair in the corner while everybody was talking because I didn't really know what to do or say at all. Her cousin came over to me and he started talking to me, asking me if I was alright and stuff like that.

After awhile I loosened up and was able to talk to her cousin. He got me something to drink and we just sat and talked. We both mentioned that we had this internet friend we were growing feelings for and I thought that was kinda cool, so I asked him who she was and he said "FlyGirl" I was just like *my jaw hangs open* So I asked him what his screen name was and he told "Guitargod" I was like...HOLY SHIT!! Guitargod is the same guy that I had talked to for 2 years and got really close to online and I couldn't believe it! We were each other's Yahoo buddies for 2 years and we never knew it until that point in time. The chemisty between on us online and then in person just intensified. To this day, my husband "Guitargod" and I have been together for 7 years and this July 10th we will be married for 5. I have never been happier or more in love than I have with this man and to this day that is why I suppose I'm so grateful for the internet!
 
Wow, that is such a cute story! And a really awesome one too.

I'd have to agree with you it definently was fate. Did you know he was from Indiana at the time?

I may post mine later but it's not near as exciting as that.
 
Yes I did know he was from Indiana, but I never knew what part. My parents were really finicky about me sharing where I was from online at that point in time, so I never forced him to tell me exactly where he was from since I wasn't allowed to tell him. I just couldn't believe it once I found out that it was really him! I can't wait to hear your story :D
 
Ah, tis a long and boring story, to which i will share the short version. I'd known her for about six months, and she'd liked me the whole time, but she was too shy to say anything. Eventually she confided in her brother that she liked me, and sneaky git that he is, he told me. We've been together now for almost 11 months, although she went to university in scotland so we haven't seen each other for a while :(
 
LA, I have one thing to say. Wow. How unlikely for that to have happened. If only I could have seen your expression when he said that....
 
Amazing Lady Aeirth, simply amazing. I'm not a person to be big into the whole idea of "fate", but what would you call something like that? There has to have been a reason that you met him again. The world truly is a meysterious place my friend. I am happy for you
 
Amazing Lady Aeirth, simply amazing. I'm not a person to be big into the whole idea of "fate", but what would you call something like that? There has to have been a reason that you met him again. The world truly is a meysterious place my friend. I am happy for you

Aww thank you Link! I don't know what you would call something like this, but I feel it was definantly fate. I feel we were destined to be together and it's 7 years later and I'm still with him. ^_^ I've never been more happy in my whole life and I love him more than anybody could possibly imagine. It's just hard to describe the feelings put into words I guess, thank you :D
 
Drunk at a bar. We both liked each other. Went home to my place, had fun. Turns out it worked very well for both of us so we kinda stuck with it.


Damn I tried that several times and never worked out.


Anyways I was single and moved in next to this really nice girl. We became friends and then later we became exclusive.. Now we have been married for 6 years and I wouldn't trade her for nothin. Funny thing is I was going out with all these girls looking for the right one while I was friends with her. She would give me advise and be there to chill when the "dates" where not around. So what I was looking for was right in front of my eyes. I almost missed it. One night we just kissed and it was like WHAM hold on,,,she could be what I'm looking for. The rest is history. :rolleyes:
 
I'm still searching =/

Well my ex was on the cross-country team with me. I kind of knew her through acquaintances. I actually didn't know her to well until I talked to her on her xanga, and then I started to talk to her on MSN for hours and hours during the night. She was actually my first girlfriend actually so I wasn't really experienced with talking to girls and dealing with relationships. One day I actually mustered up the courage to ask her to a school dance though.

We dated for 5 months, and it was probably the greatest memories ever. When I was with her, I was SO happy. It didn't work out though =(
 
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Awww, well you're still young yet Dr. Siefer and you have plenty of time in your life to find the right girl! Just hang in there and things will happen. They do eventually for everybody and I'm the type who truly feels that there is somebody out there for everyone. :)
 
Ah LA, that story is wonderful! Just goes to show, DONT SLATE INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS!

I met my current boyfriend on MySpace a month ago. Its spooky as we use to go to the same college and I already knew some of his friends through my first boyfriend, but hadnt seen them in years. Plus he lives in my hometown! So I see him every weekend ^^

He commented on a blog I made about my ex, which made me laugh and said some lovely things about my pictures. So we got talking and I was meant to be going out for a drink with a guy I liked, but he cancelled it. So my future boyfriend asked me to come out with him and his mates.

Told my grandmother, whom I live with when I go home and she wasnt happy at all. But I met him regardless. And we started going out that evening. He confessed that he faniced me when we chatted on MySpace and MSN and I felt the same. We chatted for 3 days before we actually met.

The night we started seeing each other, I stayed at his house cause I couldnt get home and the following morning my gran met him and was smitted. She cant say a bad word about him! My family have met him and all like him, but are still protective over me as I was in a 3 year relationship and dumped last August. Its almost 2 months for us and we are just happy to be together!

I told everyone we met on MySpace, but went to the same college and they are all great with it. I thought they would see it as being sad or dangerous we met over the Internet, but I couldnt be happier.
 
Awww Sapphire sweetie, I am so glad that things are working out for you! And you're damn right! Don't go hating on internet relationships because you never know what is going to happen in the end! Here it is 7 years later and I'm still with my guy. The world is so small you just don't know what's in store for you when it comes to relationships ;)
 
Well after i'm not anymore in a relarionship,the father of my boys and me we broke up because we are to different we just life together for the kids,but the time i meet him it was like the earth moved under me.

He was a costumer in the Coffeeshop i worked and he came every day with his Barby girlfriend.
For about 3 month we dident spoke a word together,but than one day i had to stay at the door af the Coffeeshop.
I opend the door and there he was and he was looking at me like never someone was looking me before.

He:Darling i dont know who you are and i dont know nothing about you but one i know i will get married you.
Me:Just in your dreams.

Well I'm not easy to get,doesent metter if i liked him,he had to proof me that he realy wanted me.
We went out for 4 month and i dident let him in my home for you know what i mean.
Than it came Valentinesday and he offert me a 2 day tripp near the Ocean.On this weekend we did it for the first time and to say in this 2 days we made oure first son.

It is not that romantic story like yours,and we never got married too and we broke up.
One day i'll find my second half,but for now i live my life for my kids.
 
I've actually known my boyfriend for a while. We went to the same high school together and he was a year under me. I knew who he was when I was a sophomore. When I was a senior he started working at the same place I was working at, and even though we weren't really friends, we knew each other. After my first year of college when I came back home from New York and went back to work, he was still working there and eventually we tried dating.

We dated the whole summer, and when I went back to school, not in New York but still far away things started to get rocky. He was going to school 3 hours from where I was going to school and it was just too hard not seeing each other. I also felt that he wasn't really committed and after a while I broke up with him.

7 months later though when I got out of school again for the summer, we hooked up and we've been together for 11 months, going to be 1 year April 28! I guess he needed some time to sort out his life, but I'm happy we are together again. I've only dated like 1 guy since we broke up and he was a real jerk, it didn't even last a month.
 
I'm not currently in a relationship, but I met my ex-boyfriend at a concert. We were rocking out together, and we just kind of clicked.

At the moment I'm developing strong feelings for my best friend. I know it is a bad idea to even think about it, but I really cannot help my self..
 
Yeah I fell in love with my best friend too. But someone it turned out that he was a girl, or more accurate, a so called

hermaphrodite.


This freaked me so much out that I locked myself in for a month or so, refusing to talk to anyone. Luckily I found myself a nice and wholesome young lad not too long after that, and we went out for almost 9 months. Right now I'm single though. Wish I had myself a man. :(
 
Yeah I fell in love with my best friend too. But someone it turned out that he was a girl, or more accurate, a so called

hermaphrodite.


This freaked me so much out that I locked myself in for a month or so, refusing to talk to anyone. Luckily I found myself a nice and wholesome young lad not too long after that, and we went out for almost 9 months. Right now I'm single though. Wish I had myself a man. :(

..seriously?

Wow. That is really rough. I know people who has actually gone through with (or are at the moment) a sex change, but that's different, I guess. I'm sorry it scarred you, but I hope you didn't let it ruin your friendship, unless s/he was leading you on or tried to fool you.

I kind of feel like just hitting the towns and just randomly hooking up with some guy, maybe you should come with me. :-)
 
That would be a cool idea, if only I knew where you lived.

No I was too scared to be friends with him/her after wards. It kept hitting on me in all the wrong sitations and I felt very awkward and weird and extremely uncomfortable. Once I even started crying, and it just laughed at me.

People shouldn't have two genders, it's not normal and it creeped me out. I am a very christian soul, and it was just too much for me.
 
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