Guys thinking vs Girls thinking..

[Rydrum2112]

I am thinking I should officially gonna start an evolutionary psych thread in the Study hall section. The only problem is that I am going away for a few days (so i can't do lengthy explanatory posts) but if I get the time I will start to address these points when I return.

For now I will just pose this question: Shu did you ever wonder why on average men value physical attractiveness more than women do? ( I am not saying that all men value physical attractiveness than women, don't fall for the ecological fallacy ).

 

[Shu]

No, not really. Why question when I enjoy it so to speak? I don't think about the laws behind it, I just know what I feel. Feeling is what makes the world go around.

It's the same thing as if you know you are straight or bi or gay, you dwell on it, you think about it, you obsess on it from time to time.

I'm more of a type who sees straight forward, I don't like putting terms necessarily to every single thing that I feel. It would make it nihilistic if you know what I mean. Basically trying to dismantle everything I am into a certain category, when all this thread is about is... are men different than men when they think.

My standpoint still is .. a overwhelming Yes. Not because I'm biased, not because I was born and bred to think this way, but because through nature and nurture I saw and witnessed things that most don't really think about it because they are so trivial to them. To me it's not so trivial, hence why there are an overwhelming about of divorce rates, and all I got to question is.. why. or better yet, why is there marriage if we already know that divorce rate is beyond 50%. There has to be reasons.. hence more or less deeper things in this thread I want to pull out of this thread. =).