Do you have the friends like I do?

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Sephiroth (FF7)

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Do you have friends that turn against your back when you do one thing wrong. To get both of you guys in trouble? And then they start I hate you club and everybody in the class jumps on you? And then they start talking to you again in a couple days later like nothing happend? And then they do it all over again? Our do they allways say that your mean or that you said that you called them fat , but there the one calling themselves fat? And do they hit you and give you sores for no reasons?

That's how my friends are,are mine like yours?

If not or if so any advise?
 
well no, but if they do that there not ur real friends:dry: becuzz friends would neva do that well at least mine don't but thats what i think just don't be there friends,there better ppl in the world that care about u!:) ;) ^_^
 
Nope im fortunate in the friends area ^_^ Although i do have a group of friends who have fell out with a friend and now shes the most hated person in the school....but i try and mediate that i dont condone anything they do to each other - and believe me its pretty nasty

but im told im ruthless in a bitch fight - thats why i dont fall out with my friends - i might say something ill regret lol but my friends are awesome :lol: there always there for me and stuff.....ok im to shut up now because i sound like im bragging XD
 
I'm not hated in the school they just jump on my it's this girl that's must hated in my school. My freinds just don't treat me right and there the only people I got.
 
Wow. Alot like me. Though the people mainly are jerks because I'm not the most popular person. And all you who previously said you don't have freinds like that, just wait. Make a huge mistake, and they'll run on you faster than a nazi kills jews(my favorite anology).
 
In high school there's not a lot you can do about your friends. THe farther you get along, the better it gets. I'm sure you're a good kid and good things will come your way. It just seems hard. The only real advice I can give you is let it pass through you. I know that seems hard to do. But the only other choices are to pretend it doesn't happen, which isn't good because you should always stand up for yourself, or put on a rough skin and get very defensive. Don't act like it didn't happen but just let it pass through you. Acknowledge it and don't let it get to you. You're above it.

Just give it time. You're already above the problem. It just make some time to realize that. And if it bothers you, confront them. Again, don't take it too hard. Don't get emotional. Don't get tough... don't get weepy. It's obviously bothering you a lot so it's fine to feel bad... but that doesn't mean you should get mad, sad or otherwise. Be stoic. Just talk to them. There's nothing wrong with expressing yourself effectively. If you get upset you'll disrupt that. And there's a chance they might confront you right back and say some really mean things... so brace yourself for the possibility. But you can do better.

In the end, fewer really good friends are far better than lots of casual ones that will run away at the slightest hint of a problem. Busta is probably my closest friend. I trust the guy with my life. I have other friends but I'd rather be able to put all my trust in him than spread it thinly across many.
 
I think...you're looking to deep into this.
The first time one of your friends says "he said, she said, deedeedee", you should say "fuck you" and find a new friend.
 
True words my friend; likewise. I consider 2 people in my life my best of friends. Aztec being one, and another is a friend I've gone to school with since Kindergarden and after 16 years of knowing for both Aztec and my buddy Matt, it's always a blast. They may not know every detail about me, I may shock them from time to time with the things I do or say, but they are closer to me thabn any friend I've had throughout my life.
 
Lol, no I don't have friends like that at all...otherwise they really wouldn't be my friends in the first place. But do I have people that acts all nice and then talks behind my back? I'm thinking no...but at work, you never know. That's why I don't get too close to anyone at work, except for a couple people.

I do have a best friend (I've known her since I was 14), who said cruel things about me at one point though (we had a little misunderstanding), and so I e-mailed her (for she's in California and I'm way out here in Ohio) and gave her a piece of my mind. I did it with class, of course. ;) I didn't call her names or insulted her. I was straight to the point and a little strict, but I let her know that what she said hurt me really bad. Few days later, she finally got the courage to call me and told me how sorry she was...and I knew she meant it because I could tell she was about to cry.

My advice is...if someone stabs you in the back, don't stab them back. You'll only be like one of them. Just leave it alone and eventually, (let's hope so anyway) they'll get a life soon enough.

Now, if it's a friend (like in my case), try to know each side of the story first and talk it out with them. It would really suck to lose a friend over something stupid. Friends also get into fights. That's normal. But if possible, try to save it, especially if what you're fighting over is really not that big of a deal.
 
Aztec Triogal said:
In high school there's not a lot you can do about your friends. THe farther you get along, the better it gets. I'm sure you're a good kid and good things will come your way. It just seems hard. The only real advice I can give you is let it pass through you. I know that seems hard to do. But the only other choices are to pretend it doesn't happen, which isn't good because you should always stand up for yourself, or put on a rough skin and get very defensive. Don't act like it didn't happen but just let it pass through you. Acknowledge it and don't let it get to you. You're above it.

Just give it time. You're already above the problem. It just make some time to realize that. And if it bothers you, confront them. Again, don't take it too hard. Don't get emotional. Don't get tough... don't get weepy. It's obviously bothering you a lot so it's fine to feel bad... but that doesn't mean you should get mad, sad or otherwise. Be stoic. Just talk to them. There's nothing wrong with expressing yourself effectively. If you get upset you'll disrupt that. And there's a chance they might confront you right back and say some really mean things... so brace yourself for the possibility. But you can do better.

In the end, fewer really good friends are far better than lots of casual ones that will run away at the slightest hint of a problem. Busta is probably my closest friend. I trust the guy with my life. I have other friends but I'd rather be able to put all my trust in him than spread it thinly across many.
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I used to be most popular at my school but, now someone has a reason to hate me because. They say I'm mean,or called them fat,or just did one little thing and then they start I hate you club. And everybody joins and then they all talk to you again like nothing happened and then when you didn't do nothing all day they say "O yeah I hate you,why am I talking to you?" But if your going to King's Island for your birthday they act all nice and won't leave you alone. But when I tell them there not going but the friend that was nice to me. They start the I hate you club again. I don't know what to do.:mad:
 
I was in hate clubs at school, sure...but we only made fun of retarded airheads. =\
 
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