Serious Complicated girl?

[Daw]

Dear friends,

There is someone I know, whom I actually liked her. Met her in the church, got to know her for about almost a year. Interesting girl and all. Pretty independent type.

She finds it interesting to talk to me as well. Sometimes just follows me after church for lunch. We chatted much, through talk box and what's app. But recently a few weeks back she has been busy, and doesn't reply my text, saying she is busy and all. Few months ago she has been actively liking my photos on instagram, but stopped a few weeks after. So I though maybe she is busy. Funny thing is that, I can see her liking photos in instagram. Just couple of weeks ago after church service she actually waved at me from far far away, I can't barely see who is she at that moment. Then she came, walked with me and we chatted.

Just wanna ask you guys opinion: is she not a techie person? Did I message her too much? Or is she just too shy until she doesn't know what to do in texting? Or is she just not really into me?

Note: she is pretty busy in her final assignment, but still Facebook and instagram here and there.

 

[seddy-0]

well if its her final assignment, she is prolly busy and how instagram works. she might not see your photos. i dated a girl who ran a business.. so i can tell you from experience. there were times i had to literally go to her work and see her while she was working to spend time with her. there will be times you will hit her up and not hear back for a day or two.. instead of texting, have you tried just calling her?
with me and girls. i am active with them all when its the winter, but once racing season hits. i tend to get so wrapped up in my training and racing that i do forget to get at people to hang out. if its her final assignment, give her some space, but do hit her up form and make your presence known, that you are still into her and want to hang and talk. but don't overload her with texts. when you see her in church go up and say hi and and hang with her then. catch up at church if you have to. if she doesn't reply to all your texts but sees you in church and approaches you then and hangs like nothing is up.. then yeah, she is still into ya, but is just busy. so proceed with care and don't overload her.

 

[Daw]

Thanks for your advice seddy. Really appreciate it. I guess she is just super conscious of the whole thing.After lunch, I went out with her yesterday for grocery shopping. Initially she dressed very casual: shorts, and t shirt. Then I told her we were going somewhere in the shopping mall. Then she changed to her favorite clothing and jeans. Wear some perfume (which I realized). At the end of the day I text her saying I appreciate going out with her. She replied saying she had a good time too. So what is she thinking?

 

[Davey Gaga]

It sounds like she does what every single student in the world does: puts off revision by visiting social media outlets, the actions of which may or may not result in you getting a like or a re-tweet here or there. I wouldn't think too much of it, to be perfectly honest.

Strike up a conversation and see for yourself!