Ok so sorry for opening up an old thread, but this thread was to do with relationship problems and I need to unload again so here goes.
I feel SO bloody guilty, after all I threw a hissy fit for when he told me he fancied someone, now I'm going through the same thing, and I don't know what to do. I'm so confused, and it makes me feel so bad, but I can't control it, I feel so lost and confused, I love my boyfriend to pieces, and I don't our relationship to end, but I find myself really attracted to this other guy and I don't know why, I was hoping it was just a phase and that I'll get over it, but I'm not so sure that it's it.
This guy I have feelings for, he's so lovely and funny and cute, and when I spend time with him I feel happy and I get butterflies, we flirt and chat quite a lot, and we spend a lot of time together, the thing is we work together too, so I'm worried that people are getting the wrong idea about us anyway, he gave me a lift home tonight and we were just chatting and it got to how people would probably put stuff through the rumour mill and what not. I dunno what he thinks of me if I'm honest as well, and I really want to ask him, but I'm too scared.
This whole thing is tearing me apart at the moment, and I feel so guilty, even though I would never cheat on my boyfriend, the guilt is just there...
I realize this post is a tad old, but, if the poster is still looking for advice..
It is possible that you may just be infatuated with this person. See, often times when people date, sometimes infatuation can be easily confused for feelings of love and it can be rather hard to tell them apart. However, you should also be honest with your bf and don't keep it to yourself. It may or may not hurt him, but honesty is best in situations like these. You should also try to sort out your feelings and see if you really feel for this new guy over your bf, just so you can be sure.
~ Raz
