Oh, stick it.

[Davey Gaga]

Have you ever bent over backwards to help someone else for it to be blatantly thrown back in your face?

Today, my pal was asking for my help over MSN. He's quite the sex maniac in the group and he even likes to 'pretend' to like boys. So, he's on MSN today and asks me a serious question: have I ever felt curious about same-sex relationships?

Now, immediately, I remembered that a few hours earlier, he told me that the rest of the band were going round to his house to practice, so my suspicions were raised and I asked him if this was a wind-up. It went back and forward between my question and him making me feel guilty for doubting him when he was being so serious. He did seem genuinely in need of help, so I just offered him some advice. Let it be known that, by the end of the conversation, I believed him to be alone and in need of help [and also let it be known that I answered, truthfully, that I was perfectly straight] . I wont get into the gritty details of the conversation but at the end of the conversation, he went on the webcam and I KNEW it was going to be a wind up, when he was in hysterics. A few seconds later, the rest of the band pop out of all corners in the room and they claim they "got me."

I'm so pissed off with that. Aye, it was a joke, blah blah blah, but I genuinely thought he needed some help, he made ME feel horrible for doubting him and then threw it in my face by saying they won? Fuck thaaaat.

This is as much of a discussion as it is a rant thread.

 

[Bambi]

I have a mate tht is very 'woe is me' on relationships, no matter how much I try to be nice to him, or give him advice he throws it back in my face, well he doesn't do it deliberately but he is just so down on himself I get bored of constantly trying to reassure him because all we ever do is go round in fucking circles til I get to the point where im like why do I even bother. He was getting messed around by some girl so I was like, just tell her you have had enough of her games and fuck her off. That usually results in but I don't want to be labelled a twat like 'every other man' and tell her to get lost. I just call that being a doormat. Ugh then it just goes round and round some more til I give up

He's lucky he is a good friend or I would have told him to bog off ages ago. BAH

 

[Gingerbread Lesbian]

when people turn things back on you to make it look like you're the one in the wrong even though you haven't done anything. (I'm sure we've all been stuck in that situation before )

Is is sorta like that?

Anyway, if it is then it happened to me last Friday (the day before she went on holiday), anywaaay, it all started at some party Laura had that we were at (the same party I was SB drunk ) and Charlotte, who I had never spoke to in the whole of the 5 years at school was being accused of getting off with Jamie who had a girlfriend, albeit she never because she was with at least 2/3 people all night.

So Jamie (who is a close friend) was confronted by another close friend of mine, Mikey, they also happen to be best mates >.<, and me and a few other people had to separate them because it was getting heated but at the same time Charlotte's best mates LEFT the house...yes they fucking bucked it >.>

So then after it was all quietened down I sat outside for a bit and then Charlotte came at sat next to me because you always need someone to talk to afterwards even if you hardly know them and mainly because I was the only person apart from 1/2 others that actually believed that she didn't do anything wrong so then we went into the living room because hardly anyone was in there (and it was more comfy) and we started talking about what happened and then I hugged her in a comforting/friendly way so that she'd stop being upset.

So yeah that's the main story, but then last Friday some lass called Gemma told ME that Charlotte called me a cunt for the way I acted because I didn't know her; and I was like wtf? Her friends left the house and she needed comforting and because I believed she didn't do anything I helped calm her down...yet I'm a cunt because I hardly knew her and I shouldn't have comforted her?

So to be honest, I was rather pissed off at being told that, so I asked Charlotte about it and she was rather shocked that I had been told that and that she had never said anything (it was obvious by her reactions she never did say anything). But we were both pissed at Gemma and she was going to confront her before she went on holiday if she came on msn; I don't think she ever did.

Like yeah, I was pissed off at Gemma due to the fact, even though I did my best to help someone I hardly knew that I was still made out to be the bad guy. Mint yeah? >.>