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Well I thought I would throw this out there to entertain the older generation of people. I would say 16 and up.. just because sex is not as immature to talk about around my age, it's almost acceptable everywhere even amongst the opposite sex.
So these days, since we don't live in the 20-50's or so and divorce/cheating/one night stands/dating around are more common due to cultural influences and boredom; I was going to throw a general question out there.
Does the number of partners someone has had sex with deter you from being in a relationship with them? I think every relationship I was in after 16 I expected some sort of sex ..... eventually. I mean physical interaction is almost deemed essential due to the fact if you really feel someone is attractive, how the hell would you ever be able to keep to yourselves?
Here's how I think about it..
The older we get, the less people are in relationships and just dating around.. the partners add up. Thankfully I've always been tied down to relationships.. so I'm still counting the 5 and below partners on my hand.. but I've literally had to tell some of my buds to be careful these days, due to how easy it is to get with a girl around here.. and how easy it is to get an STD. Sex is almost.. a reason to be in a relationship now.
With that said.. I've known even some of my good friends whom are girls at least been with 15+ people.. hell even tried to get with me my sophomore year, when I was still tied down. She's very pretty.. but then I think about it.. and yea the sexual partners does sort of drive a nail between her "sexiness".
I've never really thought women (no offense.. ) that have had quite a bit of sex are very attractive. Something goes off in my head.. and I'm like... man.. they dress the way they put out. It's almost sad, these days anyone is attainable. Question is though.. take the risk? or Even trust them enough to be in a relationship with them?
So let me know.. what do you think? Does the number of partners someone has been with deter you from being with them?
(Might change this to sleeping forest if a debate breaks out)
So these days, since we don't live in the 20-50's or so and divorce/cheating/one night stands/dating around are more common due to cultural influences and boredom; I was going to throw a general question out there.
Does the number of partners someone has had sex with deter you from being in a relationship with them? I think every relationship I was in after 16 I expected some sort of sex ..... eventually. I mean physical interaction is almost deemed essential due to the fact if you really feel someone is attractive, how the hell would you ever be able to keep to yourselves?
Here's how I think about it..
The older we get, the less people are in relationships and just dating around.. the partners add up. Thankfully I've always been tied down to relationships.. so I'm still counting the 5 and below partners on my hand.. but I've literally had to tell some of my buds to be careful these days, due to how easy it is to get with a girl around here.. and how easy it is to get an STD. Sex is almost.. a reason to be in a relationship now.
With that said.. I've known even some of my good friends whom are girls at least been with 15+ people.. hell even tried to get with me my sophomore year, when I was still tied down. She's very pretty.. but then I think about it.. and yea the sexual partners does sort of drive a nail between her "sexiness".
I've never really thought women (no offense.. ) that have had quite a bit of sex are very attractive. Something goes off in my head.. and I'm like... man.. they dress the way they put out. It's almost sad, these days anyone is attainable. Question is though.. take the risk? or Even trust them enough to be in a relationship with them?
So let me know.. what do you think? Does the number of partners someone has been with deter you from being with them?
(Might change this to sleeping forest if a debate breaks out)