More horny with or without a partner?

Korytco

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I just heard a generalization that said " Men without women are more horny for them"

In your opinion, generalize or say that you can not generalize what ever, its your thread do with it what you want to.

Are people who have a sexual partner more horny than those who do not ? Referring to young and ripe couples.

How I see it if you have a partner your urges are satisified so you would be horny less often, or you would be horny more often because you would lust for more and more of the real thing.

It was a statement made by males , being sexual animals usually more so than women but it does not have to be limited to males.
 
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I am horny ALL the time

When Im with someone I'm not as horny because Im getting regular sex. But I do tend to want it more if I know Im gettin good sex.
I could be away, like work say and Il be getting friskier by the minute. Give me a week of no sex if Im in a relationship and Im postivley climbing the walls

If I'm not in a relationship, Im just horny all the time. It's no fun. I think about it dream about it and talk everyones ear of about how frustrated I am.

I'm just perma-horny I think :monster:
 
They're horny, either way you look at it. People with a partner still occasionally lie with other people, go to whore houses and are promiscuous as hell. There's an easy physiological explanation for that though. The stimulus for feeling horny in guys is automatic, and cannot be controlled. Women need to feel right before they start feeling horny.

I read that somewhere though.
 
You do not think that relationships are a stimuli for "dramatizing" horny feelings though?

Or the absence of a relationship "dramatizing " ? I mean I see your side but that is my question.
 
The deprivation of something - anything - vaguely dictates an automatic craving or mild desire for the thing not in possession, as I feel is the case for sexual intercourse amongst other things. Perhaps far more common in the case of virgins, though it can equally apply to anyone with the right 'drive' for it.

Personally since entering a relationship, I've become a lot more blazé about sex. It's accessible, I don't mind it, and I needn't concern myself with resorting to venturing as far as clubs or what-not to have the remotest chance of attaining it.

Having said that I'm "more blazé" about it, I was never exactly horny anyway - sure I'd joke around but I never really experienced major urges.
 
That's a difficult question to answer because I know of people who have claimed to feel hornier after losing their boy/girlfriend, but probably because they lack what they had before, but like I said, there are still people who will go to strip clubs and lie around, even though they have a significant other. I guess this isn't exactly true for everyone because everyone is different, and there are people (ie, myself) who don't feel horny either way.

Although I don't feel horny enough to need a signficant other.

By "automatic" I mean that you can't help it--if you look at someone "hot", you can't help feeling horny even if you don't want to. It's more physically significant, but I don't wish to explain it in that much detail for the sake of the forum rules.
 
what do you mean by that?

Its automatic, guys will just generally feel horny when something sexually arouses them, we don't control when it happens it just does.

Sex is like a drug to some people, once they've had it they always have a craving for it, therefore, being with a partner would suit them more because as long as the other partner feels in the mood the craving/horniness is satisfied. Which is why if one partner is not satisfied with another it has the possibility to leading to an affair.

Nevertheless, people who aren't with partners will still naturally feel horny which leads to masturbation :neomon:

so you mean that that person can get out of control

I would say 99% of the time, no. A person can't control when they get horny it just happens so they'll find ways in which to satisfy their need. However, that other 1% people will become out of control which can lead to things such as rape etc.
 
how can someone knows which side is he in?


You wouldn't be able to tell just by looking at someone only they would know, its like, how could you tell if someone is planing to murder someone? Only a malicious person would rape someone, getting horny, however, is completely natural.
 
I don't understand how people can be horny alone. I mean, watching other people do the funky isn't very gratifying to me, but if that certain someone is flirting hardcore... than dang. :]

Plus, it's kind of hard to get sexual with a computer monitor. Live people are much more fun. I think. xD
 
Black monster, please try to post contributory posts from now on. Thank you.

Anyway, I believe it really depends on the person and it can very well go either way. One can be horny if he or she is in a relationship. Why? Well simple, really. Because the fact that they can have sex whenever the hell they want.

And then of course, someone can also get horny if he or she is lacking partner. For what reason? I have no clue, but it happens alright. Maybe looking too much at porn on the internet and having the sudden urge to actually do it...but finding that they'll have to find a willing participant first? So while they go off searching for one, the hornier they get? Heck, all these possibilities.

But like I said, it really depends on that individual. Not all people can get turned on just like that.
 
The human race is driven by a desire to procreate. So from time to time we have urges.

Saix pretty much hit the nail on the head. We want what we don't have. Which in this case is sex, because sex is enjoyable and pleasurable(generally:wacky:) we desire it. This desire is intensified because it isn't being satisfied. It's the same with anything else, say I didn't drink anything for one whole day. I'd be much thirstier than if i hadn't had a drink for half a day.
Saix is right again. When we are easily able to access something in amounts greater than we could possibly desire we do become blaze to a certain extent.
Yet again saix is right, when you're a virgin, sex is like the most important thing in the world, then after it's nowhere near as important.

However i think bambi mentions a very good point. By not being able to have said great sex, would lead to immense desire, because she knows what she is missing, it applies to us all. It's not just sex that we are missing out on, but great sex, and thinking how great it would be would unbearable after a while.
 
However i think bambi mentions a very good point. By not being able to have said great sex, would lead to immense desire, because she knows what she is missing, it applies to us all. It's not just sex that we are missing out on, but great sex, and thinking how great it would be would unbearable after a while.

Oh believe me, I'm climbing the walls with frustration I know what Im missing. I'm sure I wouldn't be this highly strung if I was still a virgin. It just can't be possible......:gasp:
 
Sex is probably an isomorphism of hunger--but of a different kind I'm not familiar with. Yes, I admit that.

There is a biological explanation for why pleasure and sex are related--such a position is so ridiculous that if it weren't at least enjoyable, then there would be fewer people engaging in procreation.
 
While doing some research on google, I came across this topic...3+ years later.

...And I am very impressed that we managed to discuss this topic in a relatively serious manner.

Oh and since there's really nothing to debate about...

(Moved to Costa)
 
I think I'm hornier when I know I can't have it, like when it's girly time or whatever.

I was most definitely more horny when I didn't have a partner.

When I'm with someone, I still want it, but I know I can have it when I want because they're always there and so I don't feel this urgency or real need to have it right now, and therefore my horniness subsides. XD

When I was single I never knew when the next time would be so I was constantly thinking about it, which led to me becoming horny all the time. :hmmm:
 
I feel like the odd one out. :wacky:

I am certainly desire more when with a partner, as long as I like that partner.

I don't think I've ever been particularly fussed whilst single. Sex in and of itself just isn't important to me... In fact, if there's no one I love deeply, I am happier without it.

Towards the end of my previous relationships, I was actually repulsed by the idea of intimacy. I just wanted all men to disappear so that none of them could see me so that I was certain no one would even think of me in that way! :gasp:

With Chris, it's different. I actually feel happy about the whole idea and relaxed and therefore desire it. :lew:

I'm gonna leave it at that. I find it sort of embarrassing talking about it. :wacky:
 
It's a different kind of horny, when in a relationship. You can go all day thinking of ways to "do" your girlfriend and that can make you all wild inside and out.
When single, also always horny, but a different kind...at leaST for me.

Some girls say they can tell, whom of the guys are having "real" sex, just by looking at them, because the single ones looks desperate horny...is that true girls ?
 
Whether in or not in a relationship, I am always very horny. Some people call me a nympho, and I am sure it was appropriate, but there are degrees to this, and althought I am insatiable, I do not, or have not ever thought I was addicted to sex, so I am sure there are nymphos of a much higher caliber than I. :hmmm:

In my experience, the sexual tension in a relationship, is very similar, yet still different, from the sexual tension, when forming a relationship. It leads to mixed emotions, and ends up with a sexual experience. :grin:

Different people, no matter how kinky they are, want different fetishes, at different times.

What has been sad for me, in all my former relationships, is that I can recognize when it is falling apart, by paying attention to how often the girls kiss me on the mouth. Something that can be recognized as less kinky that sex, but is much more intimate. :kinky:

That being said I am single now, and it is very tough to find new relationships. Being single and alone kinda sucks, but iunno, I would not say I am more or less horny, a lot of it has to do with specific moods, stimuli from the media, boredom, and freetime.
 
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