More horny with or without a partner?

April 15, 2008, 5:41 PM

I just heard a generalization that said " Men without women are more horny for them"

In your opinion, generalize or say that you can not generalize what ever, its your thread do with it what you want to.

Are people who have a sexual partner more horny than those who do not ? Referring to young and ripe couples.

How I see it if you have a partner your urges are satisified so you would be horny less often, or you would be horny more often because you would lust for more and more of the real thing.

It was a statement made by males , being sexual animals usually more so than women but it does not have to be limited to males.

April 15, 2008, 5:47 PM

I am horny ALL the time

When Im with someone I'm not as horny because Im getting regular sex. But I do tend to want it more if I know Im gettin good sex.
I could be away, like work say and Il be getting friskier by the minute. Give me a week of no sex if Im in a relationship and Im postivley climbing the walls

If I'm not in a relationship, Im just horny all the time. It's no fun. I think about it dream about it and talk everyones ear of about how frustrated I am.

I'm just perma-horny I think

April 15, 2008, 5:50 PM

They're horny, either way you look at it. People with a partner still occasionally lie with other people, go to whore houses and are promiscuous as hell. There's an easy physiological explanation for that though. The stimulus for feeling horny in guys is automatic, and cannot be controlled. Women need to feel right before they start feeling horny.

I read that somewhere though.

April 15, 2008, 5:52 PM

You do not think that relationships are a stimuli for "dramatizing" horny feelings though?

Or the absence of a relationship "dramatizing " ? I mean I see your side but that is my question.

April 15, 2008, 5:57 PM

The deprivation of something - anything - vaguely dictates an automatic craving or mild desire for the thing not in possession, as I feel is the case for sexual intercourse amongst other things. Perhaps far more common in the case of virgins, though it can equally apply to anyone with the right 'drive' for it.

Personally since entering a relationship, I've become a lot more blazé about sex. It's accessible, I don't mind it, and I needn't concern myself with resorting to venturing as far as clubs or what-not to have the remotest chance of attaining it.

Having said that I'm "more blazé" about it, I was never exactly horny anyway - sure I'd joke around but I never really experienced major urges.

April 15, 2008, 6:01 PM

That's a difficult question to answer because I know of people who have claimed to feel hornier after losing their boy/girlfriend, but probably because they lack what they had before, but like I said, there are still people who will go to strip clubs and lie around, even though they have a significant other. I guess this isn't exactly true for everyone because everyone is different, and there are people (ie, myself) who don't feel horny either way.

Although I don't feel horny enough to need a signficant other.

By "automatic" I mean that you can't help it--if you look at someone "hot", you can't help feeling horny even if you don't want to. It's more physically significant, but I don't wish to explain it in that much detail for the sake of the forum rules.

April 15, 2008, 6:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by black monster

what do you mean by that?

Its automatic, guys will just generally feel horny when something sexually arouses them, we don't control when it happens it just does.

Sex is like a drug to some people, once they've had it they always have a craving for it, therefore, being with a partner would suit them more because as long as the other partner feels in the mood the craving/horniness is satisfied. Which is why if one partner is not satisfied with another it has the possibility to leading to an affair.

Nevertheless, people who aren't with partners will still naturally feel horny which leads to masturbation

Quote:

Originally Posted by black monster

so you mean that that person can get out of control

I would say 99% of the time, no. A person can't control when they get horny it just happens so they'll find ways in which to satisfy their need. However, that other 1% people will become out of control which can lead to things such as rape etc.

April 15, 2008, 6:14 PM

I am single and very horny....It is why the statement interested me.

April 15, 2008, 6:17 PM

Horny relative to everyone else?

I think it's just me, but normal people are horny.

April 15, 2008, 8:22 PM