Can you see your negative qualities , can you face them?

March 22, 2008, 4:02 PM

Everyone has their 2 sides their good and evil. It is a lot easier to accept, realize your good qualities than it is to do so for your bad. Or is it not ? People differ.

If I ask you to post all / most of your self known negative qualities could, would you do it?

Mine

Argumentative, socially wounded, slightly egotistical , cold and dark sided. Bad with the girls, as in shy. Sloppy, lazy and paranoid.

People less often look for or can easily accept the things that make them bad or less fortunate. They just dont give a shit and complain. Like I do. OR simply can not see those qualities anymore due to ego or some such thing.

March 22, 2008, 4:17 PM

I definitely have an easier time realizing my positive qualities. I dislike outlining my negative ones, but it's not like I'm not aware of them.

A tad anti-social.
Horribly profane.
Poor temper when it comes to competition.
Lazy.
Little sense of priority.
Procrastinate far too often.
I can lie a little too easily when I choose to.
Questionable sense of humor; you won't laugh at some of the stuff I do.

Not too bad, methinks. Oh, and I hate kittens. Some people consider that evil.

March 22, 2008, 4:50 PM

Oh posting my bad points is easy

I drink too much
Lazy
Selfish
Smoker
Argumentative
Moody
Unmotivated
Bottle things up
low self esteem
My priorites are all backwards aswel

That'l do for now before I start sounding REALLY emo

March 22, 2008, 5:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Frsiky

That'l do for now before I start sounding REALLY emo

Haha I stopped myself, too.

Add unmotivated to my list. That's a good one right there.

March 22, 2008, 5:06 PM

Ack. Yes I am aware of them.

-Too self-conscious
-Bad-tempered, even when it comes to little things.
-Lazy (especially during the weekends)
-Moody
-Takes a lot of things a little too seriously
-Lately, I've been kinda unmotivated
-I tend to make a big deal out of the smallest things.
-When someone's talking to me, my mind sometimes wander on its own, and I have a hard time concentrating on what the person's saying.

There's more, but I can't really think right now.

March 22, 2008, 5:12 PM

Oh poor concentration, yeah Im there
Bad memory/forgetful
How annoying that I hjsut forgot what I was about to put next. Forgetfulness is probably the one I hate th most

Im too sensitive lol, thats annoying aswel, Il cry at ANYTHING

March 22, 2008, 5:14 PM

Oh, yeah. I never thought about concentration. My mind always wavers when I'm supposed to be paying attention to someone.

I don't try to be rude. I probably have a mild case of ADD or something.

March 22, 2008, 5:17 PM

Im too easily distracted aswel, my ex would be talking to me and my mind would start wandering or something wqould cathch my eye. Id subconsiously just be agreeing with him then he'd be like are you even listening?

It's not MY fault he bores me

Edit*

Adds impatient & paranoid to the list

March 22, 2008, 5:19 PM

-Lack of patience in all things
-Short temper when people don't agree with me/listen to me.
-Lazy
-No inhabition for the "important" things like school, work, the future....
-Paranoid in almost evevery way
-Controlling

March 22, 2008, 5:24 PM

Lazy as fuck
Smoker
Offensive
Viciously argumentative
Jump to conclusions
Short Tempered
Planning = No
Can't concentrate for prolonged periods of time
Daydreamy

That last one is particularly true, I often wander around on my own off in my own world, not really talking to people much, and if someone stops me to talk I'm normally wanting to leave and carry on in my own world for a bit, until I get bored. So I suppose Anti-social should come as well.