I've only been in a couple of serious ones, and the longest lasted a year and a few months... They all end for the same reason- it gets to intense, and the other person decides they're not ready. All of the relationships I've been in have had their ups and downs but bad things aside they were really good.

I guess that means I am unsuccessful with relationships? I don't usually have trouble getting into them. Its just a matter of finding someone I want to go out with.

Its upsetting sometimes, but I'm still young, its not like I'm going to find the love of my life at this age.

It would be strange for me to put in my side of the relationship story. But yet I cant help myself. I'm a tool when it comes to relationships. Because i'm generally an idiot with women. I mean I can esily score a relationship, and that's not me being bigheaded, it's just the nature of its easy to get in a relationship but hard to actually have one. I find myself in a place where I dont care about the person who cares about me or vice versa. I do this to myself really because at core of it all I need to be in a relationship most times, even though I'm doing pretty good out of one again.

recently I started talking to an ex girlfriend again and we're close, and she recently got in a relationship, and has openly admitted she feels extremely strongly for me and when herself and her boyfriend fall out she talks to me and claims things, on top of all this I still feel strongly for her, dare I say I love her? And these prediciments just fly over my head. And I am rather busy with things so I just do them to get it out of my head but its still gonna be there.

That problem aside though I struggle with something very simple but fnd the hard easy. I am great at being there and being everything someone needs when they need it. But I can't keep it together with the stupid things like going out and find it awkward. It doesn't help that my personality is rather messed up at best. I mean right now I'm trying to get it on with a college tutor just for the laugh. I openly admit I'm a mess at best, but then again, i think most relationships till you learn to understand yourself are a mess at best. You get the biggest highs and lows in a relationship and its worth it sometimes, Sometimes it not, and finding that balance is what it is about I reckon.

Live and learn I suppose.

I've only been in one real relationship in my life, and I'm still in it. All the others were just me trying to make myself believe that I actually loved a crush. But anyway, I've been in this one for... I'm not sure, since around April. It wasn't "hard" to get into at all, we both knew each other decently and loved talking with each other, and at one point we admitted that we both liked each other, and since then it's just grown; a lot. I'm fairly positive that this will be my first, and last serious relationship with anybody, and I'm pretty sure my boyfriend feels the same.

i find it difficult to get into a relationship, it takes alot of time and work, and by the time i've put in alot of time, i usually have a friend more than something.... more
my relationships usually last about couple months, im not sure i don't count. lol
no, not at all, my relationships always end bad.
a common denominator in my relationships are that they are all freaks! Women i date are wierd and confusing...

I cringe when I hear the word "relationship". If I had balls, they would probably want to jump back up into my body. :3 As you can probably guess, relationships are just not my thing; not at this point in my life, anyway. I've been in one or two before, one serious one that lasted for three years, but that didn't turn out to be as good as I'd hoped it would. *shrug* Now that I'm a bit older and have experienced more things in life, I'd rather not be tied down to someone. It would be pretty unfair to both myself and the other party because I am way too independent for my own good, and too damn stubborn to want to take on the responsibility of caring!

That just makes me sound like a heartless jerk.

i been with my guy for almost 5 years now!
and we annoy the hell outta each other!
but we love each other and still intend to marry! Relationships are all about give and take! all that matters is that both of you work at it together!

Relationships are never easy. But the awesome feeling you feel when you're with someone you like... well it's just so worth it.

I've had a girlfriend online (but we broke up after around 3 months) and I've had a few flings IRL too (but rarely did it ever work out). It's hard I'd say. A few months ago, before graduating from High school/College/A levels, I had 3 girls who were into me. I was asked out TWICE, and rejected them because I barely knew said girls AND they weren't exactly my type. I've been rejected too, quite a few times.

Are relationships worth it? hell yes. There's a slight chance you might end up with someone awesome, and the time you spend with that person is magical, however long it lasts.

I haven't met a person I've liked for a year or so now, but hey, if I do, I definitely will go all out and try to get into a relationship with them.