strange feelings

April 26, 2008, 10:37 PM

ok i have talked to someone about where should i post this thread and he told me to post it here

today i was talking to a friend at the MSN and i felt that i was bothring her

we were talking about this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zU87CKxLZh8

and she asked me who was he talking to in this video

i answered like this

he was talking to us the people who thinks of him as an important person.

i will explain the song to you

me :imagien that some one important to you is going to look for something somewhere. and you know that that place is very dangerous. what will you do?

she said : i will try to stop him.

me : if you failed?

she : i will tell him that i am going with him.

me : if you failed?

she : i will let him go and i won't forgive him.

me that is exactly what happened. and after a while he will reach a place and send you a message right?

she : yes he will.

me : that is exactly what happened in that video.

she : aha thanks

she : can i ask you something

me sure go ahead

she : ............

me : is there something wrong? am i bothring you?

she : no there isn't anything wrong. i am just searching for something that

is related to an assignment i have. sorry if i let you feel that way.

end of story

what should i do?

April 26, 2008, 10:43 PM

Actually...

-Moved to Temple of the Ancients-

And based from that conversation, I really don't know if she was bothered or annoyed or what. =/ The ".........." could be a hint though.

So what should you do? Drag her over here and have her post in this thread to confirm if she was bothered or not. =P

Kidding. I don't know, I guess just leave it be. It's no big deal, really...don't worry too much about it. If you really have to, then ask her what's up?

April 26, 2008, 10:52 PM

i aleways feel that i am bothring her and i always apologized to her and i always ask her if there is something bothers her

she says no there is nothing .

April 26, 2008, 10:56 PM

Well then, I guess you'll just have to take her word for it. But then again, usually when girls says "No"...typically it really means "Yes". xD That's something I also still haven't figured out - how women's mind works, myself included.

If I were you, I'll stop asking her if there's anything wrong. If there is something wrong, it's obvious that she doesn't want to share it with anybody anytime soon. Like I said, just leave it be for now.

April 26, 2008, 11:03 PM

i may not understand about what you have said but she is my friend there must be something i can do to help her. somehow

April 27, 2008, 1:39 PM

Okay, the "........." is definitely a bad sign. And 9 times out of 10, if you ask a woman what's wrong and she says nothing, then something is wrong. Course men do that lots too

Although...I'm not quite sure what she could be mad about with that convo though o_O Try asking her about it casually, or letting her know you're worried that you upset her. If she still doesn't tell you anything, just drop the subject and if she wants to talk she'll do it on her own terms. One thing women hate is being bugged about something.

May 7, 2008, 2:54 PM

i must give her sonetime to think is that what you mean?

becuse if that is the case then i will wait

May 7, 2008, 3:03 PM

Invite her over to your house for some tea and scones and write her some poetry. Then post your poetry here for all of us to see!

But the silence is a killer, she was off talking to some other gorgeous Saudi boy who's better looking than you.

This is a love story for the ages.

May 7, 2008, 3:34 PM

hmm your funny

you remind me of someone

do you know someone called matthew perry?

May 7, 2008, 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by old snake

i must give her sonetime to think is that what you mean?

becuse if that is the case then i will wait

Yep. With women, if something is bothering them, the safest thing to do is ask them one time what's wrong. If they say nothing, but you can tell they're lying, don't keep asking. Just wait let them tell you when they're ready.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ruud

Invite her over to your house for some tea and scones and write her some poetry. Then post your poetry here for all of us to see!

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