Dating Advice - Page 2

May 10, 2008, 1:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Incorrect English

Whoa sounds like she's pretty forward actually!!! Either that or she's doing that annoying girl "oooohhhs but we are such good friends tralala" thing. I'm not sure. But yeah like Ruud and English Dave said, best to see how things play out ^^

O--M--G...Like, 3 hours ago. She hugged me and put her arm around me and said "You're my best bud, arn't ya..." HOLY CRAP! The end. I think we got something here now.

AND SHE SAID SHE LIKES GIVING ME HUGS OUT LOUD! OK, I see where this is going. When she signs on MSN we are gonna have the most hardcore, intense IM conversation in history!

I JUST REALIZED, MY MOTHER FRICKIN' 200th Post! XD

May 10, 2008, 1:54 AM

Actually that sounds more like, 'we are friends'
not 'come and get it like a big funky sex machine'.

Like someone said before, you can't make someone like you, but you can still try. Just be nice to her and say nice things occasionally, don't be OTT though.

Alternatively, ask her out, that way, you will know whether she likes you.

May 10, 2008, 7:25 AM

It's pretty damn annoying when you get such mixed signals from the opposite sex. I've been in a couple of situations myself where the guy's all over me shouting to the rooftops how great a friend I am, OMG JEEZ SAMANTHA YOU'RE SO DAMN HUGGABLE!!! But then they just don't want anything more. Wtf?!?! It's so hard to tell when someone likes you in a friend way or a romantic way. I'm really not sure what this whole big show is that she's putting on, but I can understand why you're so confused.

But yeah, the general advice still sticks ^^

May 10, 2008, 12:24 PM

I don't want to MAKE her like me, I just want some advice so she would have more feelings for me. She is really special to me, and I have like no idea what to do, but as of now I have some pretty good ideas thanks to you guys. Oh, and I don't think you are "gods of sex" since you are older, I am asking you since you ARE OLDER, and you have experienced these things (Hopefully...) SHUT UP SECOND MIND!!! GOSH!!!

May 10, 2008, 8:25 PM

Hehehehe awww ^^

To be honest you seem to be doing just fine already, carry on as you are, if she's all friendly with you and not creeped out by you then you are already set. Just be there if she needs to talk, girls love to talk

May 12, 2008, 8:18 PM

...I don't know what to say...She doesn't like me...She went out with me for 3 hours. She is being threatened by her ex. I can tell. I saw him pacing around her and she looked sad. She made up some corny excuses and thinks I believe them. I don't know what to do. She was the only one I ever truly loved in that way.

May 13, 2008, 5:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Nokoi

...I don't know what to say...She doesn't like me...She went out with me for 3 hours. She is being threatened by her ex. I can tell. I saw him pacing around her and she looked sad. She made up some corny excuses and thinks I believe them. I don't know what to do. She was the only one I ever truly loved in that way.

Oh Noes rejected by your love, your love was unrequited and you became an hero, or you became Tedius. SRSLY just beat him up cause leik all wimminz respond to violence. If you're not willing to beat him to a bloody pulp you obviously don't love her.

May 13, 2008, 5:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Nokoi

...I don't know what to say...She doesn't like me...

Roll with the punches and learn to grin and bear it, kiddo.

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Originally Posted by Nokoi

She went out with me for 3 hours. She is being threatened by her ex. I can tell. I saw him pacing around her and she looked sad. She made up some corny excuses and thinks I believe them. I don't know what to do.

that basically means gtfo unless she calls for you to do her bidding.

Womenz need space when they're depressed, and if you try to be aggressive with them(or what you may have in your head to define "comforting" them), they will distance themselves from you. Just means it's time for you to find a nice comfy spot on the bench/sofa/floor/corner of the room and wait.

But ya, pay no mind to the boyfriend situation unless it escalates to srs business. Let her take care of her own problems. Her parents can help her better with that situation and make a better outcome than you can.

alternatively, you could kick this guy's ass, but in my experience that's really never worked too well and the chick just got mad at me. Lovers will have their quarrels, and will eventually get over them.

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Originally Posted by Nokoi

She was the only one I ever truly loved in that way.

Let me tell you something else cliche. Nice guys always finish last. You're a nice guy. Being a nice guy is fine when you're a shriveled old raisin, but no-one's going to care about how much you love them as soon as you meet them as much as you do.

What you're experincing is infatuation, not love. You've known this girl for three days, no? You cant really expect her to want to make out with you and start having dirty secks under the football stands after just starting to hang out with her.

Valuable relationships take time to form; romantic relationships are no different. Unless they're one of those sex crazy chicks.

May 14, 2008, 10:22 PM

FRYLOCK, VIOLENCE IS NOT THE ANSWER!!! Anyway, my theory was not accurate. Her ex is just calling her a fag and stuff. (HOW COULD SOMEONE BE SO MEAN TO HER?) She tells me she is just not ready, not old enough for a boyfriend. She likes me, she says I'm cute, but she just isn't ready... She is right, I can accept that, but somewhere in my heart I still love her.