bullying

May 18, 2007, 7:53 PM

i personally can't stand bullying mainly because it has lead me to attempt suicide on 5 seperate occasions and still haunts me today franctly parents need to get a tighter grip on their children and bring them up rather than drag them up and teach their children how to be respectful and considerate of other people regardless of what may be wrong or different about them

May 18, 2007, 8:37 PM

Mopey people suck. Quit bitching. Do something about it. And you can't commit suicide 5 times because "committing" anything means you succeeded. I'm sorry if you feel bad because of mean people... but seriously there are ALWAYS going to be mean people. I know you're 15 but seriously hit the gym or at least learn how to talk big.

May 18, 2007, 8:42 PM

sorry i meant attempt suicide and i do talk big now and my height is dominating on most people and i also do 'hit the gym' now and i am now feared by most of the people who i used to be shit-scared of me which is a bonus

May 18, 2007, 8:46 PM

You're sick, you know that? Running away from your fears and trying to intimidate others is not "progress", and trying to muscle your way out of life's problems isn't going to work. There will ALWAYS be people stronger than you, trying to boss you around, and unless you stand up to them and say "no", you're not going to get anywhere in this world.

May 18, 2007, 8:48 PM

Very good. That doesn't mean you have to be mean but being intimidating doesn't ever hurt. Just don't intimidate the women. lol Then what's the problem?

EDIT: I don't think he was saying he's being the bully... just that he is not being picked on anymore because he's big and Grrr

May 18, 2007, 8:59 PM

Standing up to bullies usually results in an ass-kicking, but they'll still beat you up if you don't stand up to them. A person's only got one choice, stand up to the bully, take the beatdown, then keep standing up to him/her, when they realize you're not afraid of them, they might go pick on someone else who would be intimidated by them. FYI, that ''Tell the teacher'' garbage doesn't work, it only pisses them off.

May 18, 2007, 9:04 PM

LMAO! God I would so rant but Saix would end up giving me another "that's not mod behavior" speech. Soooo weak. That's all I have to say. Seriously, I was never the cool kid. I always talked shit to the bullies. And I always got away with things no one else could have. Just grow a pair and don't let them bother you. I don't even understand how this is so hard.

May 18, 2007, 9:09 PM

Depending on what kind of bullying, you can respond in different ways. If it's verbal, all you have to do is acknowledge they're utterly pathetic individuals, and walk away. Or attempt some method of blocking out their tripe.
Should it be physical... well, you could always get the authorities involved. Fighting back can only get you so far, and even if you manage to beat the living shit out of them, they can always come back in groups, or with weapons.

You want to consider counselling if you've been driven to attempted suicide. Keeping everything up inside is only going to result in you attempting again. Lord forbid you'd succeed the next time.

May 18, 2007, 9:11 PM

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Originally Posted by The Guv'na

Standing up to bullies usually results in an ass-kicking, but they'll still beat you up if you don't stand up to them. A person's only got one choice, stand up to the bully, take the beatdown, then keep standing up to him/her, when they realize you're not afraid of them, they might go pick on someone else who would be intimidated by them. FYI, that ''Tell the teacher'' garbage doesn't work, it only pisses them off.

"Tell the teacher"? How about "civil lawsuit", and a little thing called "assault"? I'm not the least bit afraid of bullies because I know that I will be getting every penny's worth of any harm they commit back if they even lay a finger on me.

Bulling does not pay in this modern age, period.

May 18, 2007, 9:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Aztec Triogal

LMAO! God I would so rant but Saix would end up giving me another "that's not mod behavior" speech. Soooo weak. That's all I have to say. Seriously, I was never the cool kid. I always talked shit to the bullies. And I always got away with things no one else could have. Just grow a pair and don't let them bother you. I don't even understand how this is so hard.

Lol. Oh it's hard alright......My 6th grade bully was named Joe Varga, (You look just like him, minus his glasses!) Joe headbutted me, and I was like ''Damn that hurted......'' and he didn't feel a thing! What's worse is that he wasn't your typical meatheaded bully, this guy was as intelligent as he was strong. A truly fearsome individual.....but if I met him now.......*Accidentally punches Aztec, because he looks exactly like Joe Varga*