well. many many hours ago i went to the southern part of the village in Estersand and talked to that girl/boy Tchigri who told me her dad was gone and the ferry weren't runnin yada yada. Then she asked me to help her out on a mission but since I was very low leveled i turned her down.

Now I'm back and seems like my only chance to complete one of the marks if by talking to some guy on the northern part, but when I got there by going through the wastelands i found that the village is empty (exept for that moogle who sells maps) and will probably only be populated when the ferry is up and runnin.

so I googled my self to the answer that in order to get the ferry running i must help Tchigri, but i turned her down. is there no way for me to help her now?

Well, I went to her and she took the flower from me, but nothing really changed after that. The ferrie still aint running, Tchigri keeps saying that his/her father aint around and I'm not invited to any mission. Have I blown it?

I remember that he/she (Tchigri) asked me for help about 45 hours of game play ago, but I was to low level to do anything I could barely make it through the Estersand so I turned him/her down. Is there a way to trigger that mission again?