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May 30, 2007, 9:02 AM
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Weird Feelings....
Well me and my GF of three years...Broke up i think about three or four month ago...and during those months i was feeling like crap and being depressed all the time..but know im dating someone..and i dont even think about my ex anymore...its kinda weird..is this natural or im i just a weird person
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May 30, 2007, 9:19 AM
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Co___okies!!!
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Natural. You'll get over it.
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May 30, 2007, 3:54 PM
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Congratulations, you've moved on. I know people who take months or even years to get over a breakup. Good for you for doing it sooner.
The realization that a long-term relationship wasn't everything you thought it was can weird people out quite a bit. It's no big deal.
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May 30, 2007, 3:58 PM
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yeah i took me about a year to get over my ex. Kinda sucked, but then i realized how ugly and stupid she really is...
But congrats on the get over.
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May 30, 2007, 4:01 PM
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It's natural since you've already had time to heal your wounds during those months. So now you're ready for a new relationship, and this girl you're currently with is obviously making you happy if you don't think about your ex anymore. Time has a way of healing things, and with that comes a new beginning for you.
Don't think that you're weird at all. There's nothing weird about forgetting someone who has broken your heart. But then again, I can't really speak for the girl either since I don't know the situation and the cause of the break-up. All I'm saying is that it's only natural to move on.
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May 30, 2007, 4:53 PM
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It took me a few days to get over my ex. But i aint never found anyone since Ha Ha. Everyones different i think.
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May 30, 2007, 4:59 PM
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MinatoXYukari
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To me it appears you have moved on and good for you. I spilt up with my ex of 3 years and 4 months last August and started dating my new guy end of Jan. My ex was seeing someone in under a month after the break up.
But yes, not thinking about your ex and dating means you are moving on with your life and thinking of yourself, which is natural, healthy and good. I wish you all the best.
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May 30, 2007, 5:00 PM
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I see. Well no it's not weird at all. I strongly feel that it's just natural feelings. Most likely that girl wasn't the one for you! It can be simple to tend a broken heart; nonetheless it still takes time. Maybe not at long though. ^ ^;;
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May 30, 2007, 5:02 PM
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This happened to me before, but all those times, it was guilt. Tell your parents everything..  About anything you've kept from them.
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May 30, 2007, 5:04 PM
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What will his parents do? At the end of the day, he has to make the choice here, not his parents. Its normal because hes moving on and forgetting the past.
EDIT: Why would he need to tell his parents everything about this? Theyd probably say thats fine and just be happy.
Last edited by Mariella : May 30, 2007 at 5:14 PM.
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Weird Feelings.... 
