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It sounds like you cant talk to your boyfriend without upsetting him. Is this the case?
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I dont like asking about his past as I tend to get jealous. He gave her everything he could and I know it hurts him when I talk about it. I barely see him due to my new job, so I try and have a good time with himinstead of asking about his past with hre.
But due to my new job, we dont see each other as much and he said Im going to dump him because hes heard it all before when I said I'll spend as much time with him as I can. That upset and hurt me cause he compared me to her. I told him I wasnt her and the last thing I wanted to do was to dump him.
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You dont necessarily have to talk about her if your talk about his past. I mean about his feelings and other stuff in general.
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He cant really talk about them because what has happened to him. He does keep them locked up and has admitted to that, also his friends say he has been like that since she dumped him. We did spilt up for a day as he wouldnt accept his feelings for me as he was scared.
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Then the problems seems to be, unfortunately, that he is not ready for another relationship. Apparently he fears to be dumped again or reliving all his past all over again with you. WTF? Keeps playing without paying you attention? Hello the pause button DOES exists. (sorry, had to say it)
Seriously, I think he should learn how to overcome his past problems if he wants to continue with his life. He shows symptoms of a person who couldn't overcome to be dumped by someone and I fear that if he doesn't, he will never be able to deal with a serious relationship. Now is about the past, then what? What will happen when the real problems arrive? How will he handle them?
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