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Join Date: July 2008
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It's obvious I wouldn't want to be a father NOW, so I'll assume I'll have a kid when the "time" comes. I'm sure I could a be good father if I really feel ready to have a family, otherwise why would I be ready?
Even so, I'm torn between not even having a family, but a child would be in my responsibilty and I would change my life for him/her. My life right now however, is not fit for such a task, wealthy in love and accompaniment as it is.
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Financially, I wouldn't be able to provide for a son/daughter at the moment. Working a part-time job with student loans and other bills to pay off doesn't leave near enough to spend on a baby; however, I do think I could make appropriate parenting decisions. The worst part would be worrying about the little dude, I think. Or maybe changing diapers. Not looking forward to that one.
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Or maybe changing diapers. Not looking forward to that one.
Hah! A few have said that I'm an "expert" at changing diapers since I can change kids while they are standing up. It's actually more convenient that way rather than having to lay them all down.
But anyway, I'd like to think that I'm a good mother. I try to provide what I can to her but at the same time making sure not to spoil her. A lot of teachers in my daycare have said that my daughter is a "dream girl" since she doesn't get in trouble and always listen. That makes me glad and gives me the feeling that I must be doing something right. xD (At home though we do argue quite a big, but most would be just playful ones).
And of course, there's the financial stuff. Back then when she was born, it was hard, yes. But now we're actually doing a lot better so that's really not a big concern to us at the moment, although I know things happen.
As far as responsibilities go, all I can say is that I try the best that I can. It's not easy but that's a given. I don't look at my responsibilities in a negative way though, so perhaps that's why I believe "I can do this" and all that fancy stuff. I do enjoy being a mother despite the hardships along the way.
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Nope, I already have tons of trouble dealing with my own problems...mostly mental. But I'm trying to change, and be able to overcome my problems. Who knows; I'm still a kid yet.
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At the moment; no.
I can just about look after myself, so a child would be the last thing Id need. Harsh thing to say.
Maybe in many years to come I may become a mother. Id be strict, but fair. My children would be disciplined. Im not trying to sound nasty, but a slap never hurt me and I didnt become a little shit like some of the pond scum running around today.
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I don't plan on ever having kids really, I see myself living together withmy girl. But I don't see kids in my future. "carry on the legacy", "A symbol of love". I don't believe in all that.
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